I don't support most relationships because they're dysfunctional. I notice alot of warning signs of a bad relationship. You expect me to believe someone suffering from trust issues suddenly trusts a potential partner in a week? I'm supposed to believe you love someone you barely know? It's so...

This is a place to share some of your random relationship thoughts/thots, questions, concerns, and perspectives about any and everything dealing with relationships and sex.

had a discussion with my friend about whether or not posting your significant other on social media is important in a relationship and i say hell yea. im sorry but if a nigga dont post you on his socials hes knee deep in other chicks dms. but honestly, when i see a girl post her nigga real...

Would you be supportive if your s/o wanted to be a webcam model and cam from home? It would be another stream of income for her/y'all/the home and it's from the safety of ones own home.

Could you date someone with different political or social POV than yours?

How do others influence your relationships? Could you date or be with someone who is socially unacceptable by society's standards or someone who your friends and family didn't approve of? Could you be with someone who your friends or family considered weird, or a lame, or a bum, etc.? What...

It's time to come clean. What's something foul you've done to an ex or current lover? Also, share how somebody did you wrong..

How do y'all decide on whether or not to add a new partner to your relationship. Do y'all share or date separately? I'm thinking about giving it a try.. Also, how far (or early) into the relationship were you when y'all decided?

https://blavity.com/why-99-of-black-men-are-sexist-and-misogynistic Do you call women by dehumanizing names like Bit**, Hoe, female etc.? Do you abide by the “bro code?” Do you take advantage of women emotionally? Sexually? Do you love all women… including gay, trans, unattractive...

You were together when ya'll had the kid or maybe you were never really together. Child grows up seeing other two parent homes and asks you why their parents aren't together. What age do you tell them? Do you ever tell them the truth?

Do we as black men share the blame for our women wanting to look like that ?

http://ablackweb.com/forum/index.php?threads/your-relationship-status.1744/ In this thread we saw a lot of us were single and the pain was hilarious!! Tag someone from that thread and tell why you think they are single. I'll start.

So tell me, when trust is broken in a relationship can it ever truly be rebuilt? What does it take if so? (for any type of relationship family, friends, ect.)

from another thread a chick is 25, how many dudes does she has to sleep with by that age to be considered a hoe?

Do you think it is better to fall in love with a person before engaging in sex with them? Do you think that having sex with someone can cloud our judgement or feelings? I don't think a lot of people see sex as something special. I think it's important to feel that nervousness that comes before...

In a relationship is there a such thing as taking a break? What are the breaks for? Do they help? Would you allow this in your relationship?

Have you ever dealt with someone who had too much baggage? If so, what was it? What would you consider to be your baggage when going into a relationship? Are you willing to date someone with a lot of baggage?

The debate is that women don't want the nice guys; they want the thugs, bad guys. Is it true that men overlook the good girl for a bad girl?