Possessive or Protective?

[Rubato]

Yo flip this..you live in Florida and your girl and her friend are driving to NY...

Call me when you get to SC,..call me when yall get to TN..they stating over night I'm VA..call me when yall check in..call me when yall get to DC, then NY..

Its safety checks, but yall obsessed with cheating

Safety check can be texted

Specifically needing calls is some “say my name” shit

 

[DOS_patos]

That doesn't make it any less possesssive just because they both expect it

It sounds like they, collectively and individually, have issues

why they gotta have issues?

 

[DOS_patos]

Safety check can be texted

Specifically needing calls is some “say my name” shit

bruh....saying a name means nothing......

back when i was a buck....a chick called her dude laying next to me and even said love you.

i couldnt fuck with her after that. a chick that deceitful is dangerous.

 

[Scandalust313]

why they gotta have issues?

Possessiveness is a symptom of something else. Could be abandonment issues, could be trust issues...it could be indicative of an abusive person. The great majority of possessive people are abusers. At the very least, it shows a level of immaturity.

 

[Rubato]

bruh....saying a name means nothing......

back when i was a buck....a chick called her dude laying next to me and even said love you.

i couldnt fuck with her after that. a chick that deceitful is dangerous.

Oh I know

I’m just saying it comes from the same place of insecurity

 

[OhMars]

I get it, some people have PTSD and need reassurance that their loved ones made it on their journey safely. Thats why im cool with the one text after I get to my destination, so you dont think I've been in a car accident.

After that, you are getting into possessive zone.

 

[King Freeman]

Safety check can be texted

Specifically needing calls is some “say my name” shit

Depends man. My homeboy been living in Asia for years and rarely popping up in the group chat. I'm like "how we know you not being held captive or dead and some tranny just on your shit?" Made him pull up on the video chat.

Had to be sure. Jokes aside a text could come from anybody for real. A certain amount of time and distance requires some assurance that you safe above all else.

 

[Race Jones]

abusive

 

[OhMars]

abusive

Of course, thats the logical assessment -_-

 

[DOS_patos]

Possessiveness is a symptom of something else. Could be abandonment issues, could be trust issues...it could be indicative of an abusive person. The great majority of possessive people are abusers. At the very least, it shows a level of immaturity.

really?

immaturity?

interesting.

im debating if i want this smoke.

dont you go nowhere.

 

[Chicity]

abusive

Say it louder for the folks in the back

 

[Rubato]

Depends man. My homeboy been living in Asia for years and rarely popping up in the group chat. I'm like "how we know you not being held captive or dead and some tranny just on your shit?" Made him pull up on the video chat.

Had to be sure. Jokes aside a text could come from anybody for real. A certain amount of time and distance requires some assurance that you safe above all else.

Lol sure but we talking about a few hrs of being apart, I assume in the same city

 

[AP2.5]

Lmao at telling your S/O where you are and her telling you where she is as a bad thing.



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That's not what's being discussed sir

 

[DOS_patos]

im learning alot in here.

 

[Chicity]

A night in the club has become an over night trip across country and a trip in Asia

Wow oh wow......

 

[ImaInfluenza]

Safety check can be texted

Specifically needing calls is some “say my name” shit

Come on fam, somepeople actually like to hear their partner speak to them.

 

[DOS_patos]

Lol sure but we talking about a few hrs of being apart, I assume in the same city

if we narrow this down to the same city......depending on the city and where she ill be....still very valid

 

[AP2.5]

Like I'ma let my girl travel cross country without checking her status. That's not even what's being discussed

 

[AP2.5]

Y'all niggas let y'all chicks know which pump y'all got gas from too?

 

[DOS_patos]

A night in the club has become an over night trip across country and a trip in Asia

Wow oh wow......

its called conversational progression.

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