Joshie Kahn
"I can fix that"
That's the thing tho, boning in near a sleeping/unaware child is not mistreatment cause they're not involved in the act meaning they're subject to nothing. They just in the same proximity of the activity, if you see someone get robbed but you yourself didn't get robbed would you consider yourself a victim of robbery? I don't think so, the same applies here obviously having sex isn't a criminal act.sigh i'm not equating them, I used that as an example of an action that's abusive but might not be recalled if it happens early enough.
is fucking while holding the hand of your 5 year old okay? if it's okay to fuck while rocking a newborn, is the newborn's childhood amnesia the only justification there is for the situation?
I'm saying that "they won't remember it" is a wack excuse. that could be applied to any mistreatment of a child at an early enough age, bar physical harm. and even in the case of physical harm, there r people who beat 2 yr olds like as if it's a valid form of discipline despite a 2yr old being unlikely to remember whatever lesson the violence was supposed to instill in them.
remove whether the kid will remember or not for a second, when it comes to assessing whether what they've been subjected to was right or wrong.