Smashing in front of the kids?

you ever smash in front of your kids?

  • no

    Votes: 9 81.8%

  • yes

    Votes: 2 18.2%
  • Total voters
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Joshua 3:16 said:
Let's see:

Having sex near a sleeping/unaware child vs torturing a child.....yeah totally the same lol

Come on trini you're better than this
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Devil's advocate...I really don't think @BNE is speaking on children who are unaware. I think she's speaking

on those who don't care that the child is unaware because they feel it has no affect on the child because they

can't comprehend the action. Or am I wrong?
 
I think BNE you have to be very careful with the language here.

Labeling people as sexual abusers or saying its sexual abuse isnt fitting of the topic at hand.

People arent forcing their kids to watch them engage in sexual acts.

I think everyone made it clear here that they had some slip ups or their child was fairly young and/or asleep.

I know youre very passionate about this and I too hate when people undermine my thoughts/feelings about something Im passionate about---However, language is important.
 
BNE said:
sigh i'm not equating them, I used that as an example of an action that's abusive but might not be recalled if it happens early enough.

is fucking while holding the hand of your 5 year old okay? if it's okay to fuck while rocking a newborn, is the newborn's childhood amnesia the only justification there is for the situation?

I'm saying that "they won't remember it" is a wack excuse. that could be applied to any mistreatment of a child at an early enough age, bar physical harm. and even in the case of physical harm, there r people who beat 2 yr olds like as if it's a valid form of discipline despite a 2yr old being unlikely to remember whatever lesson the violence was supposed to instill in them.

remove whether the kid will remember or not for a second, when it comes to assessing whether what they've been subjected to was right or wrong.
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That's the thing tho, boning in near a sleeping/unaware child is not mistreatment cause they're not involved in the act meaning they're subject to nothing. They just in the same proximity of the activity, if you see someone get robbed but you yourself didn't get robbed would you consider yourself a victim of robbery? I don't think so, the same applies here obviously having sex isn't a criminal act.
 
DS_ said:
Devil's advocate...I really don't think @BNE is speaking on children who are unaware. I think she's speaking

on those who don't care that the child is unaware because they feel it has no affect on the child because they

can't comprehend the action. Or am I wrong?
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I still find that very hard to condemn, it's not as if anybody here is mentioning having sex in front of an conscious 3 month old, they child is either distracted/preoccupied or asleep.
 
BNE said:
if thats the case, the men in trenchcoats who expose themselves to kids at movie theatres shldn't get in trouble.
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Disagree, the mooner intends to show themselves off to you, the same can't be said about anyone else in this thread.

Apples to oranges
 
Joshua 3:16 said:
I still find that very hard to condemn, it's not as if anybody here is mentioning having sex in front of an conscious 3 month old, they child is either distracted/preoccupied or asleep.
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Exactly and she come in here thumb thugging calling mfs child abusers and shit cause she ain't read or read it how she wanted to read it.

Nobody sat here and said they were gonna set their child up with popcorn to watch them fuck.

If my child was in the crib and we in the zone and the child wakes up, thats that. I would do the shit again. If the next child wakes up while doing so, then that's that. My son was too damn young to remember anyway.
 
Oh shit. So "bitch" been a little loose on people lips today...
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BNE said:
because in that moment, you're prioritizing getting a nut over your child. who stays turned on when their kid just woke up?

something went wrong in the evolutionary wiring there.
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You don't know if I kept fucking or not. You're assuming shit and that's why you over there so heated. Thatbdsy, my son did wake up, I did stop and snapped a picture of his ass woke in the crib because as the picture showed he was making weird faces. It made us stop and laugh. So quit it with the bullshit.
 
BNE said:
because in that moment, you're prioritizing getting a nut over your child. who stays turned on when their kid just woke up?

something went wrong in the evolutionary wiring there.
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Trini chill b, it's not that serious. The kid isn't gonna die after they just wokeup from a nap, people don't stop being people after they have children.
 
BNE said:
then don't condemn it? meanwhile, I'm free too.

y'all can put me on ignore.
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Lol I'm not gonna put you on ignore, we just disagree, I think you should apologize to kandy and call it a day. Yall probably won't ever be besties but I'm sure yall can tolerate each other.
 
BNE said:
if you stopped, then there's no damn issue. if you were accidentally caught and you didn't carry on while knowing full well that your child was now alert/could see you, then what I'm talking about doesn't fucking apply to you.

you said it's happened before and it may well happen again if you have another kid. what tf can be deduced from that? doesn't scream "it was an accident and we stopped when we caught on", that sounds like an unapologetic lack of fucks. glad to hear that's not the case, now move along.
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Man she lying
She definitely aint stop
Talking bout she'd do it again ugh

Keep taking it to these heathens
 
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