They ain’t ready.We should do that with Kandy and ABW dudes just call in for device and she just trashes them with honesty
They ain’t ready.We should do that with Kandy and ABW dudes just call in for device and she just trashes them with honesty
I knew it was Kevin Samuels as soon as I saw the thread title.
Tough love, but it's exactly what some people need to hear.
Too many people are so delusional about the expectations they have for a prospective s/o.................that they're too oblivious to realize that they themselves fall well short of the standards of the type of person they want to be with.
Whose the dating consultant chick that quit working with women because she said they were delusional?
5 figures can be 99k5 figures can take you in vaays more than twice a year. People need to live within their budget.
And two five figure people could save a good amount of money.
I think people always assume 5 figure means only up to 30k or something.
Like what if a dude has his house and car paid off and making 60k. That's a lot of money left over. People don't like to see potential...They only want results.
thin line between being real and just being cruel
many of yall havent learned/mastered that yet
5 figures can be 99k
and you are absolutely correct. its all about budgeting
5 figures can def get you high end designer shit and some foreign luxury cars not named BMW and Mercedes
there is not much difference between a 2015 Panamera and a 2020 other than price
Trust me I know....
Nigga sound hurt. Shit was funny but sad at the same time. She will be aite though. She just gotta work on herself and build her personality. Folks put too much stock in looks and not enough in personality
Here's the thing,
You wanna shut that shit down.... Shut down her line of thinking.
If you think 6 figure salary is a dating requirement, you're placing a price on your head. Which in turn places you in a pool of women that are there essentially to be bought if you got the money.
It's at that point your worth to that man is determined on things that you may or may not be very unique at. You're directly placing an importance on something that is pretty much counterproductive to a mutual attraction between two people.
Like understand and recognize what you are asking for and what comes along with it. Just so there are no surprises. This will not be a relationship built off of anything you really bring to the table outside of your physical appearance.
I would have left it at that. I wouldn't have told her she just average... Cuz she might misinterpret that as maybe I gotta get surgery or something to look more appealing....
Then again.... If that's the direction she wanna go...so be it...... My whole point is she's chasing a superficial relationship, and those end horribly if you looking for anything real from it
Like if you legit looking for a date, look for someone who you laugh with.
Starting off.... Like in the very beginning, laughing with other, sharing the same sense of humor is the 100% best way to start off every single time.....
You can make decisions about other shit down the road later, cross those bridges when you get to them.... But if y'all first conversation is with smiles and laughter...that shit way more important than most the other shit people think they should look for first ??
Pastor Du at it again.Here's the thing,
You wanna shut that shit down.... Shut down her line of thinking.
If you think 6 figure salary is a dating requirement, you're placing a price on your head. Which in turn places you in a pool of women that are there essentially to be bought if you got the money.
It's at that point your worth to that man is determined on things that you may or may not be very unique at. You're directly placing an importance on something that is pretty much counterproductive to a mutual attraction between two people.
Like understand and recognize what you are asking for and what comes along with it. Just so there are no surprises. This will not be a relationship built off of anything you really bring to the table outside of your physical appearance.
I would have left it at that. I wouldn't have told her she just average... Cuz she might misinterpret that as maybe I gotta get surgery or something to look more appealing....
Then again.... If that's the direction she wanna go...so be it...... My whole point is she's chasing a superficial relationship, and those end horribly if you looking for anything real from it
Here's the thing,
You wanna shut that shit down.... Shut down her line of thinking.
If you think 6 figure salary is a dating requirement, you're placing a price on your head. Which in turn places you in a pool of women that are there essentially to be bought if you got the money.
It's at that point your worth to that man is determined on things that you may or may not be very unique at. You're directly placing an importance on something that is pretty much counterproductive to a mutual attraction between two people.
Like understand and recognize what you are asking for and what comes along with it. Just so there are no surprises. This will not be a relationship built off of anything you really bring to the table outside of your physical appearance.
I would have left it at that. I wouldn't have told her she just average... Cuz she might misinterpret that as maybe I gotta get surgery or something to look more appealing....
Then again.... If that's the direction she wanna go...so be it...... My whole point is she's chasing a superficial relationship, and those end horribly if you looking for anything real from it
same here.Well. My woman had to be good looking and laugh with me.
Looks/genes matter to me