hell yes
How? That was my original point on page 1 lol Marriage aint for everybody, being in a exclusive relationship isn't for everybody lol
I can love someone and not be in a relationship with them. Me not wanting to live my life like the europeans want us to, has nothing to do with a lack of love lol
didnt u also say that it should take no more than 30 days to fuck? smh
How? That was my original point on page 1 lol Marriage aint for everybody, being in a exclusive relationship isn't for everybody lol
I can love someone and not be in a relationship with them.
Me not wanting to live my life like the europeans want us to, has nothing to do with a lack of love lol
didnt u also say that it should take no more than 30 days to fuck? smh
the bolded is bullshit.. you keep bringing up marriage..... i've never brought it up once.. marriage and married life is not the end all or be all of my definition of love.... to automatically assume that with any post i make makes the whole point of the conversation pointless, bcuz like you've been doing in this argument, you keep bringing up erms like marriage and wife to define love, when i never once fell on those......
i 100% understand the argument of people not always being exclusive or even compatible and still being in love with a person... but i also understand that it's going to be really difficult for that shit to fly if the person you are claiming you are in love with doesn't feel the same way....
so to question the existence of love in those situations..isn't judgemental... it's just calling it how it's presented.....
a person who i in love with another person, and vice versa are either on the same page, or working aggressively to be on the same page.....they are typically in some stage of trying to understand and be with each other....which also includes being ex's after enough failed attempts to compromise...
love may not always be solely exclusive, but it is inclusive......if you love someone and you are not involving them in any type of relations you're having with another person..on any level... there's going to be problem there.....
to point out and question the love in situations where one person is actively making the choice to not be inclusive with the person they claim to love is going to happen.....
people can't just do whatever they want i relationships, and expect everything to be accepted int he name of love....another key component to love is communication.....cuz love has to be expressed.... and maybe that's just me talking, but i don't understand love where no one ever tries to show it or express it... and i think it's perfectly reasonable for anyone to make that same conclusion
and while i agree with this post...Saying shit like "u don't know shit about love" is the judgemental shit I was talking about.
There's gonna be thousands of disagreements within a relationship, doesn't mean the love isn't there, even when u don't do what your girl wants u to. Pretty simple logic.
and while i agree with this post...
if anyone makes a statement that alludes to love being easily turned off and on, i will say they don't know shit about love...
if they try to claim love, ten go on a selfish rant that seems to only portray their stance in a situation, i'll say they don't know shit about love....
love has to be expressed, reciprocated, communicated to exist...
if you don't show , tell, or act like you love a person, but claim you still love them.....imma prolly say you don't know shit abotu love....
or better yet... imma say you don't act like it....
if a nigga claim he love his girl, but he always beating the shit outta her...
imma be like... bruh.....you don't act like it.....if you beat your girl and you think that she should stay cuz you tell her you love her, you don't know shit about love....
if you say you love your chick,. and yo got several chicks on the side she has no clue about, imma say you don't act like it and you don't know shit about love....
peoples actions are always gonna elicit responses... words don't really mean shit without substance behind them..
i may be judgemental, but i judge people much more on their actions...........words still and always will hold meaning, but they pale in comparison to actions
next time goldie say someone don't know shit about rap, imma just bust in and be likeGoldie lashing out cuz he's wrong now
Sistren. Why they used you and your in a scenerio. You are real people. They could have just asked both of you. But it does seem like you would have a good TV show and I just want blessings for the suggestion when y'all are big. No money just a blessing
would you still love your girl if she wanted an open relationship?I don't know when this shit became cool, but all mfs do is go on social media and talk about how this person's living and that's person's living and their life be a fuckin disaster.
ME personaly, idgaf. If you and your girl wants to be a swinger couple, good for u. I'm not gonna bust in like:
"U don't really love her, if u did u would not let another man fuck ur woman right infront of u, u must not really care about her"
"Oh you're in an open relationship? U must not really love her cuz I know I could never let my girl talk to another nigga, u don't know what real love is"
lmaoo man foh