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lol, at throwing in church again.....

yall stay throwing church into everything
 
lol nah, was just an example. Just like @AP21 thinks a person should be willing to take back a cheater, that's how HE feels. I won't judge him for it. If he want's to take her back, cool. Would I? Fuck no.
 
If I man doesn't want to stop seeing other people after beginning to date me, and months go by, he just aint into me.

I need to take that L and keep it moving.
Before I was married and I had smallies never had a timetable conversation. There were times when I was dealing with more than one and other times when it was just one. I always felt like if we holding a vibe and cool why would I want to be around other people. There was no need to talk about it. But then again I was not dealing with women that wanted a relationship at that time.
 
lol nah, was just an example. Just like @AP21 thinks a person should be willing to take back a cheater, that's how HE feels. I won't judge him for it. If he want's to take her back, cool. Would I? Fuck no.

dont make the thread about me lol
 
and that's how I feel...

i think it's restricting and unhealthy as hell to not act on on something that strong...

to be "in love" with someone is a heavy implication....


when you in love with someone that shit go deep.....way deeper than you just like them a lot, or like hanging out with them.....

we talking about being in love with someone...

when you in love with someone....you gotta wanna be with that person.....i don't understand being in love with someone and being okay with just going on dates....

you gotta at the very least want more than that......
 
and that's how I feel...

i think it's restricting and unhealthy as hell to not act on on something that strong...

to be "in love" with someone is a heavy implication....


when you in love with someone that shit go deep.....way deeper than you just like them a lot, or like hanging out with them.....

we talking about being in love with someone...

when you in love with someone....you gotta wanna be with that person.....i don't understand being in love with someone and being okay with just going on dates....

you gotta at the very least want more than that......


Sounds pretty judgemental b
 
and that's how I feel...

i think it's restricting and unhealthy as hell to not act on on something that strong...

to be "in love" with someone is a heavy implication....


when you in love with someone that shit go deep.....way deeper than you just like them a lot, or like hanging out with them.....

we talking about being in love with someone...

when you in love with someone....you gotta wanna be with that person.....i don't understand being in love with someone and being okay with just going on dates....

you gotta at the very least want more than that......


Can you love somebody and wanna fuck other women?
 
Sounds pretty judgemental b
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judgemental?

that's the whole point of calling people out....
that's the whole point of threads like this.....

someone presents a situation.......asks opinion....and people provide.....


it's cool, i've been known to be judgemental.....doesn't change my opinion.....

i guess i'm just very judgemental on the subject of love.....if i think it's suspect i'll call it out
:sup:
 
sure, but when you start acting on it, imma have to question how much you really love that person....

call me judgemental......


that's bs, I can be deeply in love with someone and wanna fuck mad other women, that has nothing to do with ur love. cut it out
 
that's bs, I can be deeply in love with someone and wanna fuck mad other women, that has nothing to do with ur love. cut it out
i said that...

i just said acting on it is when i'd question ur love
 
Which brings open relationships and other things into the equation. Which goes back to me saying, what's right for you doesn't mean it's what's right for everybody else. Yall niggas swear ur way of life is the best lol
 
i ain't once bring my relationship or my wife into it, i'm speaking on my understanding of the term "in love"
 
Before I was married and I had smallies never had a timetable conversation. There were times when I was dealing with more than one and other times when it was just one. I always felt like if we holding a vibe and cool why would I want to be around other people. There was no need to talk about it. But then again I was not dealing with women that wanted a relationship at that time.
I've never raised a timetable discussion because it either comes up organically on some mutual understanding tip, or is raised by the other party (if they're feeling me). so if he hasn't indicated taking me seriously or having things progress, I'd move along.

I think u not dealing with women that wanted relationships makes sense, if that wasn't what you wanted @ the time either. I think I might weed out the guys who don't want relationships with me early on.
 
and open relationships... from what we all learned are exactly that. open and honest.....

they ain't doing shit behind each other backs, they out and in the open.....

completely different dynamic
 
that's bs, I can be deeply in love with someone and wanna fuck mad other women, that has nothing to do with ur love. cut it out

I guess it depends on the dynamics of the realtionship and your definition of love.

What are the conditions of your Love?
 
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