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BNE said:
if I don't make a guy my SO within 3 months of dating, it should be interpreted as "I don't want u boo"
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Or we just good with what we have? Listen I am not sure if I am built for an open relationship and I will never found out but I know if we are not married or exclusive I am built for a don't ask don't tell situations.
 
BNE said:
would you still love your girl if she wanted an open relationship?

"riight"

cuz I might tell that chick to drown in the sea of dick she wants more than mine, but that's me tho
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Nah lol, like Du said, it's not FOR ME, but I don't judge anybody who wants to live that life, but a shorty better not come to me with that shit. I'm not opposed to commitment and I actually want to get married lol I'm just speaking objectively. Just cuz a way of living isn't right for me, doesn't mean that it's wrong. That's all I'm saying.
 
BNE said:
would you still love your girl if she wanted an open relationship?

"riight"

cuz I might tell that chick to drown in the sea of dick she wants more than mine, but that's me tho
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Now, What color are the penis's that you would instruct her to drown in?

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TheMasterKey said:
Nah lol, like Du said, it's not FOR ME, but I don't judge anybody who wants to live that life, but a shorty better not come to me with that shit. I'm not opposed to commitment and I actually want to get married lol I'm just speaking objectively. Just cuz a way of living isn't right for me, doesn't mean that it's wrong. That's all I'm saying.
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Called it.

You a troll B lol
 
Judge Dread said:
Or we just good with what we have? Listen I am not sure if I am built for an open relationship and I will never found out but I know if we are not married or exclusive I am built for a don't ask don't tell situations.
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don't ask don't tell situations lead to hurt if both parties have different ideas of what it is they have imo
 
TheMasterKey said:
Nah lol, like Du said, it's not FOR ME, but I don't judge anybody who wants to live that life, but a shorty better not come to me with that shit. I'm not opposed to commitment and I actually want to get married lol I'm just speaking objectively. Just cuz a way of living isn't right for me, doesn't mean that it's wrong. That's all I'm saying.
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That's a hard pill to intake for some. That's how one learn about the things in life. Well that's how I learn
 
BNE said:
don't ask don't tell situations lead to hurt if both parties have different ideas of what it is they have imo
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Not with communication. How can you be upset if you know the situation isn't monogamous? What do you have to be angry about? If we see each other we see each other if we don't we don't. There are people that can complicate any situation tho. I guess I just always knew how to choose or be chosen by woman who had the same understanding as I had.
 
I'm being silly with the gifs,

but for serious,

I believe people "Think" too much.
I know I sound like a broken record, but really people!?

Who are any of us to say what we would or would not do given a situation?

I didn't pop out the box like, "imma bout to go find me a King that will let me run amuck with weenies if I want and I will allow him to swim in whatever puddles he pleases". HAHAHA.

I grew to learn myself, learn what I like and desire and I went from SUPER christian, never miss church, never curse, always wear dresses below the knee, praying every single night never cease, remember all scripture, gave all my income tax to the church EVERY year. Stressed, worried about committing sin, bashing myself for liking porn and other INNATE things to the point of tears and depression.

To being SUPER spiritual and free from all of the labels, stereotypes, inhibitions and drama that came with that life.

For me.. the change was amazing, refreshing and enlightening.

For others, we are just weird AF... and I am ok with that.

Happiness is KEY... do whatever makes you happy and give no F*cks whilst doing it.
 
Judge Dread said:
Not with communication. How can you be upset if you know the situation isn't monogamous? What do you have to be angry about? If we see each other we see each other if we don't we don't. There are people that can complicate any situation tho. I guess I just always knew how to choose or be chosen by woman who had the same understanding as I had.
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I think that's a rarity. I've had conversations with guys who didn't even know my name and got annoyed when I had the nerve to socialize with other people in a room. People might not have the monogamy discussion before feeling possessive or like they have an unwarranted claim.
 
I prolly could have done an open relationship in my 20's.

But I prolly wouldn't have gotten married with it.

If for any reason i did it would have to be like the reeseys....

I can't promise i wouldn't get wildly jealous though.....so it's prolly a good idea that never happened
 
BNE said:
I think that's a rarity. I've had conversations with guys who didn't even know my name and got annoyed when I had the nerve to socialize with other people in a room. People might not have the monogamy discussion before feeling possessive or like they have an unwarranted claim.
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If the convo is right, is knowing a name really important? It's just a name eh Lol. But is this after the 4th or 5th day of conversing?

I'm bad with names.
 
Knock_Twice said:
If the convo is right, is knowing a name really important? It's just a name eh Lol. But is this after the 4th or 5th day of conversing?

I'm bad with names.
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nah I mean y'all meet at some bbq or something, pleasant small talk cuz you're both in line for a meal at the same time. they take it for more than it was and feel a way when you absentmindedly chitchat with someone else. extreme example but some ppl will run with their own understanding, and have a different reading of a situation to u.
 
BNE said:
nah I mean y'all meet at some bbq or something, pleasant small talk cuz you're both in line for a meal at the same time. they take it for more than it was and feel a way when you absentmindedly chitchat with someone else. extreme example but some ppl will run with their own understanding, and have a different reading of a situation to u.
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Don't you just hate them dudes in your case Lol,

You spoke to me, now we go together, I want to have a future with you ass niggas smh.
 
the closest thing to an open relationship is fuckign with someone who's already in a relationship...

i was like 20/21 and i was messing with this chick from my highschool i bumped into like 3 years after i graduated....she was living with her man, and me and her started hooking up.....

i was still bustling other chicks too, and i assumed she was fucking her man when we got into a argument about it one day...

she got mad cuz i was talking to another chick on the phone while chilling with her, and asked was i fucking the chick,


i was like, yea, y wouldn't i be?


so she was legit mad, and i'm like...ok, but u still fuck your man, so what u mad about...

and she was like she stopped fucking her man when me and her started our thing on the side....

this was going on like 2 months!!!

i'm like naw shorty....u gotta keep fucking your man,....

and she really didn't want to.....so i told her i wouldn't come see her again still she fucked her man first.....

so i mean.... in a way, that kinda count
 
I am and was always pretty open tho and definitely was
BNE said:
I think that's a rarity. I've had conversations with guys who didn't even know my name and got annoyed when I had the nerve to socialize with other people in a room. People might not have the monogamy discussion before feeling possessive or like they have an unwarranted claim.
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Taking to other people is fine. Even tho those relationships were not monogamous there was still lines I didn't cross like being out with one woman seeing another woman that I thought was cool and trying to talk to her also. I think there are respect aspects to every relationship. I also never had one drawn out conversation with a woman while with another woman. There has to be rules to everything. Even tho the sistren @Reesey makes it seem like it is all free.
 
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