that's where you're wrong. Snoop is in a position of near universal love in America. White folks from all walks of life like the dude and he's basically a cultural icon at this point. Snoop is pretty much known for being laid back about pretty much anything so Snoop saying "c'mon Gayle, why you gotta say that about the man" is just Snoop being the mild mannered weed head America knows. And that's how it started out, that video started out in the same sort of mellow, yet agitated, tone.
But... Snoop saying "I want to call you one, is it okay if I call her one? Funky dog head bitch... How dare you try to tarnish my fuckin homeboy’s reputation. Punk motherfucker. Respect the family and back off, bitch. Before we come get you"
NOW he gets attention. Because it's so rare to see dude angry at anything to that degree now you gotta pay attention to whatever the fuck he's saying.
So, yes, he could have said it a different way, but it would have never landed like it did the way he did say it.