Bro, posts like this are really why I have a hard time believing you're a straight man. This is going to be a titangraph, but after it I'm pretty much done with this discussion.
You always argue in these discussions as if you were a woman. I'm not talking about simply taking the women's side. I'm talking about you saying things that might make sense for a woman to say because they have no experience as a man but makes no sense for someone who is a man or has been around men a lot.
For example, you ask if I would say anything to my homeboy about working on himself. What dude makes it to his 30s or 40s and hasn't been told to work on himself? 90% of dating at the outset is men trying to make the best impression they can, so anytime a dude isn't having success, somebody is going to come along and tell him he needs to change something. I think that's pretty universal fact among men. Ain't no dude going decades without getting wifey without someone telling him he needs to do better. Women don't get that, but every man knows that shit.
Another example is you interpreting everything these dudes say as "bashing women." It makes sense for women to look at it that way because a lot of them don't like accountability or criticism, but men, even if they don't agree with the passport movement, should think its fair for other men to express what they like in a woman and what they feel is hard to find. Like damn, what man thinks other men don't have the right to have preferences? lol
If you want a more traditional woman, you'll probably have better luck in a country where the culture isn't on some "Boss Bitch" or independent women shit. If you want a fit woman, you'll probably have better luck in a country where the obesity rate isn't almost 50% and where body positivity even to the detriment of health isn't being pushed. If you like natural women, you'll probably have better luck in a country where wearing tons of make-up, fake hair, fake nails, fake eyelashes, and now fake body parts isn't a thing. American women have the right to do whatever the fuck they want, but if some men don't like that, they have every right to express that and note that there are other places in this world where women move differently. A man should understand that even if he doesn't agree with the Passport Bro movement.
Yes, wack niggas can find women in America. Simply finding any ole woman isn't the issue. Finding the kind of woman they want is the problem. That's what women and you don't seem to understand. Some of them dudes could pull chicks in America off their finances alone. The point is they don't want the women they encounter in America for reasons listed above. Why should they have to struggle and fight for a 5 that won't even value them if they can more easily pull an 8 that will treat them like a king just by leaving this country. I don't even know if that shit is true. I'm not a Passport Bro and I have never once told a dude to leave this country for some pussy. I personally think that shit is kinda crazy, but again those dudes have their experiences and I can't say they are wrong. I don't have any Passport Bro friends, but I do know dudes that travel a lot, and pretty much all of them say that interacting with women is easier overseas. It is what it is.
