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SOME ABW Men apparently diss black women: thread about passport bros again

My thing is this military folks been marrying foreign for years and they didn’t make a movement around it. In many threads y’all say black folks can’t get along can’t do right and can’t get it together. And it’s too the point a lot of us see no hope in building anything with our own group. Are we at a point where we can’t understand or tolerate our own culture?

If I say not or even most of black women aren’t mean as hell y’all will say that’s just my experience. How black Americans supposed to build shit when it’s intense dislike. When black women go off on the net calling folks bullet bags or saying white mean or better people go off on the women who say that often. A man turn around and says the same shit and y’all say he is right? That’s not hypocritical

Again I don’t think American women are the hardest meanest most difficult people. I don’t think all foreign women are just naturally nicer.


Y’all sat up here and pretty much said the reason they leaving is because all the stereotypes of black women are correct. But be in other threads crying when women think all the stereotypes against us are correct. But just want to narrow it down to easy vs hard. Y’all keep trying to make this about something else. Just makes me feel like y’all have little faith in our culture as a whole.
 
RandomNegro said:
I understand why the brother says that he sees things from a woman’s perspective, and does so to the point where it seems like it’s a woman saying the things that he says. Simply because, I don’t understand what the issue with a man wanting a woman who is easier to deal with? Why is that even a statement to be made as if it’s an issue? It’s nothing like a nice woman. Many of these women today are told that they need to be very mean, rude and nasty. Which is why its women who think buttering your waffles makes you like a little boy

So again, I understand why a lot of those passport bros come off as hating American women, but to me? It’s more about things being an is what it is type of a dynamic. If a bunch of men are leaving the United States to find women and they go overseas to do it, if they’re asked why they are doing it, it’s going to be exactly what it is. It’ll sound how it sounds, it’s gonna come off how it’s gonna come off, so of course, in your explanation, you’re going to ruffle a couple of feathers. Which is why I understand why people saying it’s coming off as blind disrespect or is an overall hatred of American women, but how else can they explain their disdain without coming off as hating those women to a degree?

if I live in Cincinnati, and I’m going to Istanbul to get a woman, there has to be something there to what I’m saying. Regardless of what. On top of that, there is a culture that builds towards a lot of women of today being unlikable. It’s not a secret. Everything can’t just be this one-sided, men are wrong argument. So yes, it is kind of shortsighted this whole movement. Yes, you can say that something might be wrong with you, if you’re trying to get a woman in your area, but you really can’t and have to go overseas to find one. That can be true. However, the same can also be said that there could be something wrong with the women of America. The average woman does not look at it and say I’m average, so I should be with an average man. Thats a whole nother story, so in the end?

We are going to keep on having the same one way street conversations
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All true.

What you said at the end though:

The average woman does not look at it and say I’m average, so I should be with an average man. Thats a whole nother story, so in the end?
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It really does deserve it's own thread.


Might even be the root of the problem.


Basically the 80/20............90/10...............95/5 rule.
 
The argument that foreign women are easier to deal with is some bullshit. Men are visual creatures first and many many many men will deal with a straight up psycho if she's fine and has great body. These men either don't have the looks, personality, status or funds to get the type woman they want looks wise so they go to these countries where they have a little status and their money goes longer to get the fine women they want. It has nothing to do with women's behavior.
 
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The Lonious Monk said:
Now this, I agree with. When I was on the market, I never got mad at a chick for turning me down for any reason. I don't care what it was. Everyone has a right to their preferences. So I do think dudes, that shit on women because they feel that women don't value the right things are corny. If a woman likes thugs, let her live or die on that choice. It doesn't make any sense to be upset with her because that's what she likes.
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This basically contradicts a good portion of these passport bros entire mantra. Isn't their whole thing based on being upset at women's preferences so they're going overseas?
 
Tayboo said:
These men either don't have the looks, personality, status or funds to get the type woman they want looks wise so they go to these countries where they have a little status and their money goes longer to get the fine women they want. It has nothing to do with women's behavior.
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There's definitely some truth to that.


Thing is, if everything's gonna be transactional wherever you go..........it makes the most sense to go where you're gonna get the best deal.


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I like how Black Americans continue to be in denial about the riff between dating age Black American men and women is due to the opportunities presented.

Lol Black American men are in a totally different class than Black American women. They have a totally different set of job fields, income, and education.

Majority of dating age Black American women are socio-economically better than dating Black American men.

Black American women know this and most Black American men don't want to accept this because that means they'll have to accept that they are on their own. Black men like to think they have the same interests as Black women even now.

Black Americans are not having a gender war, the gender war was over in the 90s and White woman won.

What is happening is a slow realization that niggas don't have what it takes to live an American life.

Young Black women went to college, got all these degrees and got that 70K job with the 120K debt and need a mate to help her pay for it and young Black men struggled finishing high school.

So now ours values are mismatched. She tryna live an American life, most niggas around her just want struggle love like it's the 60s.

He don't understand why he can't tell her what to do and she don't understand why he can't take her to Ruth Chris and Zara on the weekend.

Thugs ain't been cool since the 2000s, we live in an era where it's about hierarchies, wealth, class, luxury, and leisure. We aren't siloed into the ghettoes and the dope man and the pimp and ghetto superstar are all we got.

Lol, you think shorty won't go with a rocket engineer making 300K a year?

Black women went to college en masse, and saw a pathway to the upper crust of America and need a mate to get them there and they looked back and Black men are behind.

Now that door has closed and both genders are having to deal with the door being shut.

There is no way out. This is it. Going to college ain't fucking worked. Getting these high 5 figure to 6 figure jobs ain't fucking worked. Trying to have businesses didn't work.

Look at the wealth data. Black Americans have been permanently shut the fuck out.

Lol, niggas can't afford love. Loving someone is hard when they don't have agency. Black Americans don't have agency because agency cost money.

Now, if a Black man and woman can admit that they don't have shit and can agree that they just want someone to come home to and enjoy, romance can work. Probably shouldn't have kids and etc, because who needs kids in this economy.

But if they scrolling Instagram and TikTok, wanting trips, luxury goods, fast money and a new body, it isn't gonna work out lol.
 
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Tayboo said:
The argument that foreign women are easier to deal with is some bullshit. Men are visual creatures first and many many many men will deal with a straight up psycho if she's fine and has great body. These men either don't have the looks, personality, status or funds to get the type woman they want looks wise so they go to these countries where they have a little status and their money goes longer to get the fine women they want. It has nothing to do with women's behavior.
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But when I say it I’m wrong lol
 
SeaSnake said:
He uses extreme examples
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76 percent of Black boys finish high school. It's 85 percent for Black girls. I am not being extreme lol.

www.brookings.edu

Racial disparities in the high school graduation gender gap

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When a quarter of the boys can't even finish high school and the girls go on to make up the majority of the college degrees earned...

Lol, like I don't know why Black men walk around this sumbitch called America, not concerned by about their viability as a human being.

Lol like think about it, there's an online movement about a race of men saying I can't get respect as a man in my own country, I'ma go trick on an Colombian bitch that think I am great...

And at first there's mockery...

Then it's anger...

But nobody wanna recognize that it's fucking true.

You can't have a functional community in a capitalist society ruled by men when the young women are literally better than the young men in every facet of life as a whole.

Men are meant to be be admired for their agency to act in the world.

When a community of men, can't express agency, it fucks everything up.
 
I'm not gonna sit here and act like I've never ever met a chick that's been on some goofy time but I've never run into it consistently while dating

I still contend these are the minority in dating situations

Y'all niggas better get on hinge or bumble. Low risk, high reward

Y'all will know within a couple of back and forths if you need to keep exchanging messages

Take from that what you will
 
AP2.5 said:
Are the dudes posting these videos that affirm how they feel, are y'all even trying to get married?

Like what the endgame here?
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Fam… As I’ve stated in the past, I’ve been married for 20+ years..

Matter of fact, this coming September will mark 22 years.


We met at work.. No dating apps, no nightclub/bars, no traveling overseas, etc…

I’m good.

I do, however, feel sorry for these cats out here nowadays in the dating pool.

Things just seem to be getting worse.

I could be wrong though. Who knows?

If y’all wanna meet somebody at a bar or use dating apps or whatever, cool.

I hope y’all find that special somebody.

But, hey , if you need to go overseas to find your soulmate, you have my blessing as well.

Like I said before, this whole discussion is just entertainment for me.

It really ain’t that serious… I’m just having some fun.

I just wish some of y’all would lighten up a little bit.


END OF ESSAY.
 
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