So I quit watching porn and masturbating.

[Traestar]

Nah i don’t masturbate to men pics.

Ok fair enough

There are women who do. My point is why are you getting on homeboy for thinking about a woman sexually if women do the same thing?

 

[Loquacious]

I had a lot going on last night and I've forgotten how she looked

But if you could see how in rhythm we were.....shiittt

I bet it was glorious.

 

[Loquacious]

Ok fair enough

There are women who do. My point is why are you getting on homeboy for thinking about a woman sexually if women do the same thing?

Damn yall niggas super serious today. It was a joke.
Shit.

 

[Chicity]

I bet it was glorious.

I think we were both just frustrated lol

 

[Loquacious]

I think we were both just frustrated lol

Why you ain’t get her number?

 

[Chicity]

Why you ain’t get her number?

Cause I'm a virgin and not a thot

 

[Traestar]

Damn yall niggas super serious today. It was a joke.
Shit.

just saying

 

[Traestar]

I almost relapsed last night, I thought there was some baby wipes behind my head only to discover they had been moved this was the only thing that stopped me, when I got up to find the nut rags I realized how close I was to fucking up and managed to take back control, the thing about no fap is that you can be strong as fuck and find it all so easy for so long then BAM! you have your cock in your hand with your mind full of lust, stay strong guys.

I relapsed last night, but I feel that Damiana helped ALOT. I still have to stay active and work on my situation, then that way I get my mind from going idle.

 

[Preach2Teach]

I relapsed last night, but I feel that Damiana helped ALOT. I still have to stay active and work on my situation, then that way I get my mind from going idle.

Keep going you will be good, if it's meant to be it will be.

 

[Chicity]

Oh I'm a relapse tonight

I'll re-center tomorrow

 

[Traestar]

Keep going you will be good, if it's meant to be it will be.

It's more of me not working and constantly at home that I feel will continue to happen. Still living in this area it's very difficult to get anything going.

 

[Preach2Teach]

It's more of me not working and constantly at home that I feel will continue to happen. Still living in this area it's very difficult to get anything going.

I was in the same boat I know how that is, try to fill your days up with small tasks even if they are pointless, also find out what is your biggest triggers for me it was when my fam was not in the house and I was alone in bed with the laptop, so I just stopped myself being alone with the laptop when the house was free.

 

[Traestar]

I was in the same boat I know how that is, try to fill your days up with small tasks even if they are pointless, also find out what is your biggest triggers for me it was when my fam was not in the house and I was alone in bed with the laptop, so I just stopped myself being alone with the laptop when the house was free.

Yea man I think I have a real problem. My triggers could be as much as the word sex, family, etc. Not to get TMI. One of my major issues however is that I really can't explain my problems openly, there isn't really anyone I could chop up with that knows what I mean. I mean to some people, porn is completely normal.

 

[Preach2Teach]

Yea man I think I have a real problem. My triggers could be as much as the word sex, family, etc. Not to get TMI. One of my major issues however is that I really can't explain my problems openly, there isn't really anyone I could chop up with that knows what I mean. I mean to some people, porn is completely normal.

I am the same not one person in my life understands this shit apart from people online, porn is like the tobacco industry when it first came on the scene, people who sold it told us smoking was good for us, then many years later people realized it was not any good for us, this is what porn is now doing and in the many years to come people will realize the truth for themselves (I hope)



Porn is still very much a new thing as far as having so much content for free available to us whenever we want it, who knows the amount of damage this could do to all these kids coming up with this shit like it's normal, when I was growing up I was lucky to get hold of one video tape and a copy of playboy, these kids have unlimited access and if it can get me addicted then these kids have no chance, UNLESS we educate them!

 

[Reesey]

I try not to lessen the importance or severity of certain 'additions', for lack of a better word.

However, it is hard for me to relate to the 'negative' side of watching porn or masturbating because it has never been an "issue" within my relationships or home life.

Porn is welcomed for King, @DS_ , to partake as he so wishes and I have the same liberties. I tend to want to watch him masturbate at times and vice versa.

We have educated our children and we explain it in a way that allows them to understand the horrid, gross and odd things other people may be involved in/do. Our son's are 18 and 16 - them AFricans for dang sure have already delved into the Porn.
But we waiting until they were 15 to get them their own cell phones so when they did it, they were doing it at school with the homies at first, now... they have free will I'm sure.

There is NOTHING we can do as parents to PREVENT anything, however as was stated.. we can educate them and we do our best to accomplish that.

 

[Loch121]

 

[Preach2Teach]

I try not to lessen the importance or severity of certain 'additions', for lack of a better word.

However, it is hard for me to relate to the 'negative' side of watching porn or masturbating because it has never been an "issue" within my relationships or home life.

Porn is welcomed for King, @DS_ , to partake as he so wishes and I have the same liberties. I tend to want to watch him masturbate at times and vice versa.

We have educated our children and we explain it in a way that allows them to understand the horrid, gross and odd things other people may be involved in/do. Our son's are 18 and 16 - them AFricans for dang sure have already delved into the Porn.
But we waiting until they were 15 to get them their own cell phones so when they did it, they were doing it at school with the homies at first, now... they have free will I'm sure.

There is NOTHING we can do as parents to PREVENT anything, however as was stated.. we can educate them and we do our best to accomplish that.

That's cool and I understand that it affects some people more than others, some could watch porn and masturbate every day and not have a problem, just like some people smoke until they are 90 years old, for many porn is an addiction and they don't even know it.

 

[Traestar]

I am the same not one person in my life understands this shit apart from people online, porn is like the tobacco industry when it first came on the scene, people who sold it told us smoking was good for us, then many years later people realized it was not any good for us, this is what porn is now doing and in the many years to come people will realize the truth for themselves (I hope)



Porn is still very much a new thing as far as having so much content for free available to us whenever we want it, who knows the amount of damage this could do to all these kids coming up with this shit like it's normal, when I was growing up I was lucky to get hold of one video tape and a copy of playboy, these kids have unlimited access and if it can get me addicted then these kids have no chance, UNLESS we educate them!

Yes bro, this right here is exactly what's going on. It's creating unrealistic expectations and realities for people.

 

[Traestar]

I try not to lessen the importance or severity of certain 'additions', for lack of a better word.

However, it is hard for me to relate to the 'negative' side of watching porn or masturbating because it has never been an "issue" within my relationships or home life.

Porn is welcomed for King, @DS_ , to partake as he so wishes and I have the same liberties. I tend to want to watch him masturbate at times and vice versa.

We have educated our children and we explain it in a way that allows them to understand the horrid, gross and odd things other people may be involved in/do. Our son's are 18 and 16 - them AFricans for dang sure have already delved into the Porn.
But we waiting until they were 15 to get them their own cell phones so when they did it, they were doing it at school with the homies at first, now... they have free will I'm sure.

There is NOTHING we can do as parents to PREVENT anything, however as was stated.. we can educate them and we do our best to accomplish that.

I mentioned this to someone a few pages ago, if you have a family and/or have already had normal sexual activity, it in the basic term should eliminate the need for porn, no matter if married or not. Problem is, me included, is that many of us have put so much focus onto our careers and or create a more comfortable life and had to put 100% into it without on the other end creating that life balance to enjoy what we currently have. I've mentioned that it has ruined my life that....smh more TMI... I haven't dated often and had much of that interaction. I mean my area is not really a friendly area to begin with, but with tourists and college folk here, I can't afford to make that excuse.

And it's not like I NEED, because I have to be on my purpose. I will say that it DOES have an effect on your health, which shocked me. Life is about balance and anytime that there is something preventing that balance disrupts your system.

 

[Preach2Teach]

Yes bro, this right here is exactly what's going on. It's creating unrealistic expectations and realities for people.

Forget about them people man, if you spend too much time thinking about other peoples expectations you will be spending less time trying to figure yourself out, I have recently learned this shit and man it feels good! we need to analyze ourselves in order to truly understand ourselves, find out what you want in life and focus on that and we can never go wrong, how old are you?