Man hides his wealth from fiancé fair or foul?

[ChicagoFigure]

Dos copping major pleas lmao hate to see it

 

[Dwayne]

@DOS_patos can you relate to what he did?


Yes or no

 

[DOS_patos]

Here's the thing. When u paycheck to paycheck all u do is work work work . She called herself "working poor". If u work two jobs u barely have time to think.

Doesn't mean they didn't have those convos and arguments.

Dude didn't have to say he was loaded with inheritance. All he had to do was pick up a part time job n try. He sat back n chilled n that book still didn't come out.

Y'all having a tough time separating "she chose the wrong dude" and "dude is foul"

I say wrong dude....Because she can do better than s foul dude. I understand his side and her side. My issue is she choose to stay and not lay out an ultimatum. So he can help out.
Y'all seeing this as me coming down on her...But she encouraged the behavior. She partly to blame...And like you asked a question earlier......She break up with dude...The next guy will have to come correct and she will be sure of that....Si her last relationship will influence her next.

Boom.

 

[DOS_patos]

@DOS_patos can you relate to what he did?


Yes or no

Hell no

Are you serious?

 

[DOS_patos]

And if he was babied that hard pops either wasn't around or didn't get him to man up or wasn't a man himself. ?

Exactly......Think outside the box

 

[DOS_patos]

What's that gotta do with paying your share of bills?

Saving extra money slows down getting out of debt

 

[DOS_patos]

If you watch your woman struggle and you got a secret savings, you’re a bitch ass nigga.

I don’t do fake

Wtf?

You went too far...I'm not even saying that.

 

[ChicagoFigure]

I say wrong dude....Because she can do better than s foul dude. I understand his side and her side. My issue is she choose to stay and not lay out an ultimatum. So he can help out.
Y'all seeing this as me coming down on her...But she encouraged the behavior. She partly to blame...And like you asked a question earlier......She break up with dude...The next guy will have to come correct and she will be sure of that....Si her last relationship will influence her next.

Boom.

@ bolded so he is foul or not? Lol this all I been arguing

Exactly......Think outside the box

It doesn't negate the fact dude is foul lol

 

[DOS_patos]

We’re done. I can’t do dumb.

I want to be sure I'm answering the right question.

 

[ChicagoFigure]

Saving extra money slows down getting out of debt

Bru what u talking about?

It's inheritance and whatever bills he's got is bring paid by someone else lol

Ur being a lil extra with this

 

[The Lonious Monk]

I ain’t hearing that shit.

Don’t be in relationship and protecting yourself. Just fucking be single.

4 years he watched this women help him chase his dream while she did the heavy lifting for him.

I said it was fair for him not to disclose how much money he had until he was ready. I didn't say it was fair for him not to do thing things that any decent mate would do.

 

[DOS_patos]

Bru what u talking about?

It's inheritance and whatever bills he's got is bring paid by someone else lol

Ur being a lil extra with this

Don't even worry bruh. I think you will see what I was getting at soon.

Been a nice debate. I like these convos. Minimum insults and just defending a side.

Respect.

 

[ChicagoFigure]

I said it was fair for him not to disclose how much money he had until he was ready. I didn't say it was fair for him not to do thing things that any decent mate would do.

All this time I'm arguing the point of fair or foul surrounding him being loaded and being a bum letting his lady struggle alone

Y'all arguing whether or not it was ok for him to not disclose his net worth

I think you will see what I was getting at soon.

I doubt that one my guy but agreed on the rest, respect.

 

[DOS_patos]

All this time I'm arguing the point of fair or foul surrounding him being loaded and being a bum letting his lady struggle alone

Y'all arguing whether or not it was ok for him to not disclose his net worth


I doubt that one my guy but agreed on the rest, respect.

Give it time. You'll see it.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

All this time I'm arguing the point of fair or foul surrounding him being loaded and being a bum letting his lady struggle alone

Y'all arguing whether or not it was ok for him to not disclose his net worth


I doubt that one my guy but agreed on the rest, respect.

I wasn't arguing with anyone. I didn't even read through the topic. I just gave my opinion on the basic question of the topic.

 

[ChicagoFigure]

I didn't even read through the topic. I just gave my opinion on the basic question of the topic

I'ma unwatch this joint now I'm mad I got invested

 

[Meeks]

She fucked up when she said she pays for everything.

You can be an aspiring writer all you want my nigga but your ass gone work like me.

 

[VulcanRaven]

Its his money so he don't have to say shit. She can be mad about it too. No one is obligated to tell you a damn thing.

 

[SeaSnake]

Foul. Especially when y’all need help. Marriage is business too and we need to know financial situation before marriage

 

[SeaSnake]

Not foul.

Fair.
He knows she loves him and will ride with him.

And maybe he ain't like the damn dog or it was early in their relationship. No timeline is given.
Fuck I look like saving every dog of a chick I date?

Anyway....We don't know his experiences when people knows he got money.

Maybe just maybe he has his reasons.

Why marry somebody you don’t trust why even propose ?