I've been with someone long enough where it should've ended but instead we tried to force it hurting ourselves with crazy negative energy.
Is that emotional abuse or you two just didn't get along
I've been with someone long enough where it should've ended but instead we tried to force it hurting ourselves with crazy negative energy.
So thats a no?I've been with someone long enough where it should've ended but instead we tried to force it hurting ourselves with crazy negative energy.
So it's the latter then, you let your feels get in the waynah...seemed like ol IC "i wanna ask about something so i can make fun of it" type post tbh.
I agree with Reesey for the most part but I don't think walking away is 'as simple as that'. Took me years to be able to walk away from my marriage and some people never do. There are deeper issues at play. And just like with any abuse it becomes the norm so you are conditioned to think that this would be the same anywhere.
With women especially those in a home where they do not earn income it is not so simple to walk away. Resources are out there but let me tell you that resources for a woman whose job it is to raise a family are looked at as 'oh that is not a job' ' you are lazy' 'you don't want to work' or other misconceptions. Getting back into the work force is a huge ordeal and very hard to do even when you have the skills to do so.
I agree with Reese, if you're an adult that's getting "emotionally abused" it's yo fault
This is an internet forum where people come to talk about things first hand, so why would I go and google something if I could just get your personal opinions on it.You are coming off as trolling OhMars even if that is not your intent
You could easily do your googles for specific examples if you really wanted them. As mentioned this is a very sensitive subject and not one easily talked about especially with internet people who could be attempting to troll or bully someone with it. I definitely would not feel comfortable talking about it even with some of my own family members. Of course people are going to have feels about this type of subject
I agree with Reese, if you're an adult that's getting "emotionally abused" it's yo fault
again, i get what reesey is trying to say, but the wording is off
i think the only thing we dont have a choice in is breathing. You dont think about it, it just happens and you dont control it per se.
No one wants to get emotionally abused, and i thought @MissK's response was perfect when summarized that not everyone has the means to just up and leave or the dynamic may not necessarily be a financial one, but there are a myriad of factors at play when dealing with emotional abuse.
Don't matter. Nigga need to leave her ass.Hopefully he not finacially tied with her or have a kid. He could probably just bounce in the night. But abusive people tend to be crazy.
again, i get what reesey is trying to say, but the wording is off
i think the only thing we dont have a choice in is breathing. You dont think about it, it just happens and you dont control it per se.
No one wants to get emotionally abused, and i thought @MissK's response was perfect when summarized that not everyone has the means to just up and leave or the dynamic may not necessarily be a financial one, but there are a myriad of factors at play when dealing with emotional abuse.
This is an internet forum where people come to talk about things first hand, so why would I go and google something if I could just get your personal opinions on it.
I have never trolled or e-bullied (lol) anyone on any forum so what led you to the conclusion that that was what I was attempting to do today.
I understand the sensitivity part of it, i respect that wholeheartedly, but you're anonymous on the internet, no one is judging you. You can say and do as you please on here. I hope that nothing in my posting has made you think otherwise. I just have an opposite opinion as you and wished to gain more insight on it
This is an internet forum where people come to talk about things first hand, so why would I go and google something if I could just get your personal opinions on it.
I have never trolled or e-bullied (lol) anyone on any forum so what led you to the conclusion that that was what I was attempting to do today.
I understand the sensitivity part of it, i respect that wholeheartedly, but you're anonymous on the internet, no one is judging you. You can say and do as you please on here. I hope that nothing in my posting has made you think otherwise. I just have an opposite opinion as you and wished to gain more insight on it
Landed..yay me!I can stop crying now. Smh.