exhibit A
Is emotional abuse a real thing?
- Thread starter Race Jones
- Start date
FakeOhMars
MEH!
What she do to you my nigga, hit you with the grits?
I can see the rest of that shit, but aint no one emotionally abusing my grown ass.
I never said those things never happened to men, I said I'm not surprised it happened to you.
real talk...what do you really know about me other than my online persona?
nothing you say?
then B quiet
yea brah...the good ol fashioned hot grits on my back...nah...it was my chest....nah...even better...my face.....yea..lets go with my face
its comical
but like i said...this is the internet...so everybody is built ford tough...i get it...im just smh tbh
FakeOhMars
MEH!
It's ok AP, it's too early to be in your feels
Even though you're my antithesis you still my ABW family
Negro you come at me damn near everyday on both sites but now you wanna be all emotional when it's on the other foot. GTFO AP
Race Jones
gangster. grace. alchemy
how am i emotional? lol
you dont wanna have a discussion...you just wanna attempt to mock something that you dont acknowledge as legitimate.
but its not your fault...im saying, men as a whole, especially black men have issues expressing their feelings about things, so we mock things that we dont understand. Like how you can fathom that man could be emotionally abused by his woman? Ya'll trying to paint this picture that a dude is in some corner balled up with tears running down his face when thats not the case at all.
Oh and please believe..i know when shit is just jokes...im just trying to provide some real shit context to the dynamic at play. All of this is based on Race's homeboy situation.
back atchu love Jones
Joshie Kahn
"I can fix that"
Ap in a 2v1 with race coming to the rescue
Race Jones
gangster. grace. alchemy
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Reesey
Real Thugs Eat Green Apple Jolly Ranchers.
It takes a certain kind of man to admit or even elude to the fact that he has been emotionally abused.
Most deflect and Crack jokes to avoid even speaking on the topic.
Internet thugs stay away from ISH that make them look/feel weak.
Like the booty play convo. Haha. Africans dang near disrespecting dudes for giving their perspective on it. And they didn't even say they liked it. Lol!
Don't make this forum the IC or the Blackboard yall. Where folks are borderline scared to share their thoughts for fear of negative backlash and ridicule.
I mean it's all fun and games till it's not.
If you want a "Donkey" thread where you can be d*cks to all whom enter, create one and let the visitors be warned but try not to be @$$es in EVERY thread.
Folks gotta have a free place for expression or they will lose interest, recluse and become lurkers.
Now..I will say this. Emotional abuse is a CHOICE whether you like it or not. If you are not a child who knows no better, you are CHOOSING to be emotionally abused by the person you are with.
Walk away...simple as that. Yes...Black and White loves. You are in control of your life.
Most deflect and Crack jokes to avoid even speaking on the topic.
Internet thugs stay away from ISH that make them look/feel weak.
Like the booty play convo. Haha. Africans dang near disrespecting dudes for giving their perspective on it. And they didn't even say they liked it. Lol!
Don't make this forum the IC or the Blackboard yall. Where folks are borderline scared to share their thoughts for fear of negative backlash and ridicule.
I mean it's all fun and games till it's not.
If you want a "Donkey" thread where you can be d*cks to all whom enter, create one and let the visitors be warned but try not to be @$$es in EVERY thread.
Folks gotta have a free place for expression or they will lose interest, recluse and become lurkers.
Now..I will say this. Emotional abuse is a CHOICE whether you like it or not. If you are not a child who knows no better, you are CHOOSING to be emotionally abused by the person you are with.
Walk away...simple as that. Yes...Black and White loves. You are in control of your life.
Old Man Cain
OG
Normally I would call you a name or say something disrespectful to AP but today I'm on my upliftment of our people vibe. So God bless all of you
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speak your mind brotha
you know we family...one day, i'm gon make my way out to ya city and meet up for drinks and cougars
Race Jones
gangster. grace. alchemy
I agree but I have to say emotional abuse is not a choice.
My dad was emotionally abusive but I didn't have a choice in the matter :/
He was my dad.
I also didn't know that he was emotionally abusive until I got older.
...once I started connecting the dots in my own life.
Emotional abuse could be something as simple as your partner regularly demeaning or disregarding your opinions, thoughts, ideas, suggestions or needs.
Partners who whithold sex as a way to manipulate and control.
Its all emotional abuse.
I dont think we should blame people for their circumstances.
We all have stayed around too long in situations that weren't beneficial or empowering.
Some of yall are in emotionally abusive situations as we speak and dont even know it.
Some of yall are emotionally abusive.
Tis is life.
But I think we have to be clear and concise here.
The dynamics of abuse are not always distinct.