Is ABW a safe space for Women?

[BlackRain]

Man listen, I fucks with Deadeye the long way, but this shit was hella self explanatory and didnt need to be broken down. Nigga act like he ain't make a whole thread stalking women in Walmart. 90% of us got it was jokes and something from the old IC days but the 10% that didn't know.....it was wack and creepy af. Like come on man. And yes. I laughed at the original iteration of his Walmart stories

And niggas gotta knock off the 'give me an example' bullshit. If you can't see these women points ain't valid in the 2yrs since the merger then a person listing 10+ instances ain't gonna mean shit. I personally feel like 'give me an example' is the equivalent of 'give me something to argue against' and its hella wack

But I could be wrong

On the IC I said niggas would keep laughing at that Walmart thread until they saw their girl, mom, sister etc in it. There was no excusing that thread. Just imagine having to explain "There's a thread where a group of men get together and post pictures of random women they see and at times follow around, which some of those niggas admitted to to get the pics, in Walmart." Theres no way to make that shit not creepy and though you may not have posted a picture if you went in that thread and laughed or participated in the comments then yeah you can be seen as just as creepy.

I think alot of times men think if you're not actively screaming, cussing, or actually physically assaulting a woman that means you cant be harmful in some way and that's just wrong.

 

[🌊City]

Go look in the math Hoffa rape thread

Just smh everywhere

Nah man, I been called them battle rappers weirdos and the culture weird in and of its self. Not so say there hasnt been some dope and creative bars but the culture as a whole.....trash

I said what I had to say and dipped outta there

 

[mike030270]

I'm in 2 forums and both majority males. I think guys just act differently online but that my experience. I came from IC but wasn't active on that site because I forgot about it and didn't know I had an account from like 08 or something. I don't see a lot of disrespect outside of The Candy Shop. Though could just be me not seeing it. Trying to post in different subs more

I forget that this place has a vip section

I thought about joining back when it was allowed but wasn't feeling the requirements at the time

 

[🌊City]

On the IC I said niggas would keep laughing at that Walmart thread until they saw their girl, mom, sister etc in it. There was no excusing that thread. Just imagine having to explain "There's a thread where a group of men get together and post pictures of random women they see and at times follow around, which some of those niggas admitted to to get the pics, in Walmart." Theres no way to make that shit not creepy and though you may not have posted a picture if you went in that thread and laughed or participated in the comments then yeah you can be seen as just as creepy.

I think alot of times men think if you're not actively screaming, cussing, or actually physically assaulting a woman that means you cant be harmful in some way and that's just wrong.

I don't disagree at this time

 

[GNS]

When ol boy called Meeks mom out her name yes but, this very thread she admitted she's not even comfortable. Look how fast you dismissed the lsa comment as if what she felt didn't mean jack shit in this conversation. A sausage fest here is NOT why I started posting here so trying to understand and see how we can avoid that needs to happen.

Lol I stated my opinion on them lsa hooligans as compared to u cats. Taking that as not gaf is y'alls sensitive ass prerogative. I didn't say fuck her feelings, I disagreed.

But yea good luck on making this place safer for women to post. I mean that sincerely.

Just hope it doesn't mean coddling and castrating y'all selves on your actual thoughts on topics

 

[BlackRain]

Nah man, I been called them battle rappers weirdos and the culture weird in and of its self. Not so say there hasnt been some dope and creative bars but the culture as a whole.....trash

I said what I had to say and dipped outta there

Perfect follow up to my last post about niggas not thinking they're harmful if they're not being physically violent. The sexual assault and rape threads are also an example of how the men here can make shit seem wild as hell and niggas trying to defend their own actions. How many times have those threads devolved into "Who hasn't gotten weed or liquor to get a woman before?". The amount of times that shit has been brought up to try and excuse rape is ridiculous

 

[BlackRain]

Lol I stated my opinion on them lsa hooligans as compared to u cats. Taking that as not gaf is y'alls sensitive ass prerogative. I didn't say fuck her feelings, I disagreed.

But yea good luck on making this place safer for women to post. I mean that sincerely.

Just hope it doesn't mean coddling and castrating y'all selves on your actual thoughts on topics

That's another problem...too many thing considering the feelings of women is coddling them and castrating yourself as a man instead of being a decent human being

 

[deadeye]

When ol boy called Meeks mom out her name yes

Hold up...............







When did this happen..........and in what thread?


And please tell me that it was one of the mega dudes and not a regular.


Not that it makes it any better or worse either way, but I'd like to think that the regulars on here wouldn't go so far as to disrespect anyone's mother.


So, if it was a regular............then that's a gamechanger and we really do have a problem on here.

 

[DOS_patos]

Man listen, I fucks with Deadeye the long way, but this shit was hella self explanatory and didnt need to be broken down. Nigga act like he ain't make a whole thread stalking women in Walmart. 90% of us got it was jokes and something from the old IC days but the 10% that didn't know.....it was wack and creepy af. Like come on man. And yes. I laughed at the original iteration of his Walmart stories

And niggas gotta knock off the 'give me an example' bullshit. If you can't see these women points ain't valid in the 2yrs since the merger then a person listing 10+ instances ain't gonna mean shit. I personally feel like 'give me an example' is the equivalent of 'give me something to argue against' and its hella wack

But I could be wrong

Not everyone understands things the same.
His mind may be somewhere else......And he may need an example to fully grasp things.

 

[Meeks]

I dont think anyone means safe in the physical sense. And I also dont think the women here are scared of anyone on here.

I think in this case, safe is a place where a woman can give her opinion and even the people that disagree can be respectful and chalk it up to we just different and not you just wrong.

Unsafe is when dude got at @Meeks mother the other day just cause they disagreed about nudity.

So i dont think its feeling unsafe cause they feel threatened, but unsafe like whats the point of even wasting my time talking bout something knowing how some dudes are gonna write it off without even giving it thought.

And that shit happens all over this site. Nobody ask me examples of shit thats daily occurance.

THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I MEANT BY SAFE SPACE.
Thank you!!!

 

[SeaSnake]

Without prime examples of what’s going on how can what is going on be changed?

I keep telling y’all in order to fix and issue the direct issue has to be stated.

The flirting shit has to stop. Don’t even understand why that happens. But woman bashing is a bit string. I see folks talk about specific issues and rarely paint as a whole a certain way.

but if that is happening it need to be called out and showed and the then fixed.

you must never seen a soul rattler post? He lives for it he is the exact example

 

[AP3.0]

Hold up...............



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When did this happen..........and in what thread?


And please tell me that it was one of the mega dudes and not a regular.


Not that it makes it any better or worse either way, but I'd like to think that the regulars on here wouldn't go so far as to disrespect anyone's mother.


So, if it was a regular............then that's a gamechanger and we really do have a problem on here.

It's already been handled

 

[GNS]

That's another problem...too many thing considering the feelings of women is coddling them and castrating yourself as a man instead of being a decent human being

Cool
But I quoted ironman yet his opinion is that I was dismissive of meeks(or whomever he was defending) because I disagreed.

That's strikes me as coddling. Like don't disagree too harshly cause she's a girl
I ain't say shit harshly or whatever but as I said good luck

 

[deadeye]

Man listen, I fucks with Deadeye the long way, but this shit was hella self explanatory and didnt need to be broken down. Nigga act like he ain't make a whole thread stalking women in Walmart. 90% of us got it was jokes and something from the old IC days but the 10% that didn't know.....it was wack and creepy af. Like come on man. And yes. I laughed at the original iteration of his Walmart stories

And niggas gotta knock off the 'give me an example' bullshit. If you can't see these women points ain't valid in the 2yrs since the merger then a person listing 10+ instances ain't gonna mean shit. I personally feel like 'give me an example' is the equivalent of 'give me something to argue against' and its hella wack

But I could be wrong

Oh look...........


Here comes the............"blame everything on deadeye"....................part of the thread.


FOH with that bullshit bruh.


Matter of fact...........let's settle this right now.




Ladies................am I the reason many of you don't feel safe here???

 

[B_A]

I dont think anyone means safe in the physical sense. And I also dont think the women here are scared of anyone on here.

I think in this case, safe is a place where a woman can give her opinion and even the people that disagree can be respectful and chalk it up to we just different and not you just wrong.

Unsafe is when dude got at @Meeks mother the other day just cause they disagreed about nudity.

So i dont think its feeling unsafe cause they feel threatened, but unsafe like whats the point of even wasting my time talking bout something knowing how some dudes are gonna write it off without even giving it thought.

And that shit happens all over this site. Nobody ask me examples of shit thats daily occurance.

There is gonna be some shitheads in every group, but theyre not the whole and can be dealt with. Comments can be deleted by mods or they could banned from the thread.

 

[AZTG]

Oh look...........


Here comes the............"blame everything on deadeye"....................part of the thread.


FOH with that bullshit bruh.


Matter of fact...........let's settle this right now.




Ladies................am I the reason many of you don't feel safe here???

Lmao.

Fam im def not part of the blame shit on deadeye group, but asking women "do i make you feel uncomfortable!?" is mad uncomfortable. Shits hilarious.

 

[deadeye]

On the IC I said niggas would keep laughing at that Walmart thread until they saw their girl, mom, sister etc in it. There was no excusing that thread. Just imagine having to explain "There's a thread where a group of men get together and post pictures of random women they see and at times follow around, which some of those niggas admitted to to get the pics, in Walmart." Theres no way to make that shit not creepy and though you may not have posted a picture if you went in that thread and laughed or participated in the comments then yeah you can be seen as just as creepy.

I think alot of times men think if you're not actively screaming, cussing, or actually physically assaulting a woman that means you cant be harmful in some way and that's just wrong.

That's not my Walmart thread bruh.


What you're referring to is the creepset thread.


I've never posted any pics in the Walmart thread..........just told stories.

 

[AP3.0]

There is gonna be some shitheads in every group, but theyre not the whole and can be dealt with. Comments can be deleted by mods or they could banned from the thread.

Refer to my post a couple of pages back about when members complain about mods actually modding

 

[Dwayne]

you must never seen a soul rattler post? He lives for it he is the exact example

That a good.

We identified a problem and now it’s time for solutions.

That’s all I’m saying fam.

Point out the problem and fix it.

As I got older and married with 3 kids, I just want to identify the problem and come up with ways to fix it.

I’m just very solutions oriented.



I said I didn’t know what exact be happening so I asked and y’all jump all on me when I wanna be part of the solution.

 

[deadeye]

Lmao.

Fam im def not part of the blame shit on deadeye group, but asking women "do i make you feel uncomfortable!?" is mad uncomfortable. Shits hilarious.

You're not even making any sense bruh.


@Chicity brought my name up and implied that I was part of the problem.


If I am the problem, I'd like to hear it firsthand from the ladies instead of from the peanut gallery.