Is ABW a safe space for Women?

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Ironman said:
Same to you Meeks what specifically makes you uncomfortable that needs to be altered?
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I don’t really believe it can be?

I believe at this point I don’t have an answer for your question and I’ve honestly just chosen to use specific platforms for certain conversations. I still love the site and pop in when I remember to but I just don’t post certain things anymore.
 
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AZTG said:
I dont think the over sexualization is even the worst part. We not even adressing that sometimes posts turn agressively into women bashing. We all seen it.
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AP you my man a hunded grand but FOH LOL don't try to dad me migga been in the game as long as you lol.
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But in all seriousness I do what women to feel ok posting here cause my circle of friends men and women we are super open about things that bother us. Just want it to be ok here as well.
 
theres nothing any of yall can do but educate yourselves.

i personally think niggas think i hate Black men and tbh i dont care because only a few ppl off this site know me and know how i get down. I refuse to coddle niggas up here and make yall feel great when you spew nonsensical garbage 24/7


Im a Black woman and i dont fragmentize my identities. Im Black and Woman. both matter and niggas must begin to arrive at a more inclusive and intersectional politic

nothing is divisive because we are already divided so that talking point is weak and moot. it also gets us nowhere and a complete disservice to ourselves

I dont need to be protected up here because yall niggas put 0 fear and my heart. i just find the majority of yall to be harmful and violent in your thinking when it comes to certain subjects.

this is an all boys club, the locker room, the barbershop. you ignore, berate, undermine, the voices of Black women and thats why its only about 2 Black women that consistently post up here.

if yall not sending unwarranted dick pics or calling rape victims hoes, your dick bumping over who can make the most women quit lmaoo

but corny is as corny does. tbh im over having informative conversations or even constructive ones up here because this space is more like a media takeout or a worldstar hip hop comment section.

Back in the day i enjoyed debating with niggas but now its 18 musty niggas in one thread trying to out fuck boy one another so i just get my shit off then go about my business
 
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AZTG said:
I dont think the over sexualization is even the worst part. We not even adressing that sometimes posts turn agressively into women bashing. We all seen it.
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That's why I asked specifically for names cause there's clearly been foul shit said. This didn't just happen.
 
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This is the thing, lol. I pointed it out, I think this thread made me uncomfortable in a way because I can’t really type out everything I believe needs to be said and it be perceived in the way I need it to be. My words have no tone and that alone will give me a headache.

I just know that it’s obvious I’m not tripping because what a safe space looks like to me can look different for other women/people. The fact that many men on here can acknowledge that I’m right says enough.
 
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Without prime examples of what’s going on how can what is going on be changed?

I keep telling y’all in order to fix and issue the direct issue has to be stated.

The flirting shit has to stop. Don’t even understand why that happens. But woman bashing is a bit string. I see folks talk about specific issues and rarely paint as a whole a certain way.

but if that is happening it need to be called out and showed and the then fixed.
 
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Ironman said:
AP you my man a hunded grand but FOH LOL don't try to dad me migga been in the game as long as you lol.
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But in all seriousness I do what women to feel ok posting here cause my circle of friends men and women we are super open about things that bother us. Just want it to be ok here as well.
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Read my response to AZ

It wasn't a dig my brotha
 
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AZTG said:
Fam its literally women in this here thread saying they cant express their thoughts openly in this thread cause of some of this shit.

I think its time to stop being combative and just listen.
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I have post in this exact thread asking what exactly is going on that I might not see.
 
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