Either you're doing something or you're not. All that other stuff is irrelevant.
A man could violate your child and your 1st thing is to best thing you want to do is seek therapy? The child is in the hospital.
Everything else like what?
I'm starting to see some scary ass men on this board, allowing their children to be mistreated, one don't know what he wants to do, another wants to seek therapy for his child who is in the hospital, while the offender walks around free and back on SM.
I clearly stated what I would do and that's make sure my child gets whatever help they need. I didn't specify what it would be because that's something you can only know once you're in that situation based on how your child is reacting to what was done to them. How you trying to make it a bad thing that someone is considering the long term well being of a child who clearly just had 1 traumatic event happen to them? You trying to add on another traumatic event by them immediately losing a parent in their life right after? That's what you really think is best for a child who more than likely needs their parent there more than ever at that moment?