Cutting your son's hair: Fair or foul?

[AP3.0]

You one of them dudes who gonna be rich and keep bringing up these posts ..aint you

it's apart of the job

 

[DOS_patos]

it's apart of the job

Which one?

Getting stole on or being zesty?

 

[Loquacious]

We don't know the back story but just for the sake of conversing we or I'm going to assume. Let's say the father been wanting to cut his son hair for years. Seeing his son that day make have been the straw to break the camel's back and make him take his son to get his hair cut.

I mean let's not act like we all don't get to a point where enough is enough when it comes to certain things and the father could've just reached that point that day.

So because he was at his wits end with the hair he couldn’t just hit mama up and discuss it or even with the child? That’s his damn head.

 

[IP360]

a nigga that cant grow hair is talking about hair can grow back

perfect

So hair don't grow back? Especially a kid? Hmm...that's new. But ok. Lol

 

[AP3.0]

Which one?

Getting stole on or being zesty?

i'm failing to see why this is a trigger for you

 

[AP3.0]

So hair don't grow back? Especially a kid? Hmm...that's new. But ok. Lol

have you ever grown dreads?

have you ever grown braids?

if the answer is yes to any one of these, you know how much of a process it is

it growing back isnt the issue

 

[DOS_patos]

I need to stop.
Nigga gonna kill me.
Him an chi

 

[DMorgan]

So because he was at his wits end with the hair he couldn’t just hit mama up and discuss it or even with the child? That’s his damn head.

If he's been wanting to cut the son hair for a while and he at his wits end what is their really to discuss with the mother? I'm not even saying its right but its obvious they see things differently.

I ain't one of those parents that lets my kids decided shit like that. So if I feel my son need a haircut then thats just what it is he ain't got no say so in that.

 

[IP360]

have you ever grown dreads?

have you ever grown braids?

if the answer is yes to any one of these, you know how much of a process it is

it growing back isnt the issue

Father cuts the boy hair...so now what?

Mother gonna deny him join custody?

Increase his child support?

Snatch the kid and move to another state?

Like what level of anger does this fall under?

B/c I highly doubt she would do anything like that. Both parties will voice their opinion on it...then move on. Lil man (if we're going by him in the pic) definitely aint thinking about it b/c his mind already on something else. Lol. 2 weeks later...the boy will probably be back in the barbershop.

Hope that barber got a nice tip tho. Got lil man lookin fresh ta def

 

[AP3.0]

Father cuts the boy hair...so now what?

Mother gonna deny him join custody?

Increase his child support?

Snatch the kid and move to another state?

Like what level of anger does this fall under?

B/c I highly doubt she would do anything like that. Both parties will voice their opinion on it...then move on. Lil man (if we're going by him in the pic) definitely aint thinking about it b/c his mind already on something else. Lol. 2 weeks later...the boy will probably be back in the barbershop.

Hope that barber got a nice tip tho. Got lil man lookin fresh ta def

i'ma just dead this right now

like du said, its petty parenting.

this aint a battle worth fighting

Just talk it over with the parent. If the two of you cant come to a decision, leave it up to the child. Its really not that hard

 

[IP360]

If you say so brotha.

 

[BlackRain]

So you decide his religion and cut a piece of him that he will never get back? Once the kid reaches adulthood chances are that he wont follow your religion and disagrees with what you did.

Same like mofos posting their childrens childhoods on social media, completly destroying possible future careers and violating their childs privacy.

Your last sentence contradicts your own point. If the kid will eventually grow out of the religion anyway then it don't matter when they got baptized at 2 months 2 years or 20 years old. And who the fuck is going to be denied a job because their parents posted a baby picture of them?

 

[Loquacious]

If he's been wanting to cut the son hair for a while and he at his wits end what is their really to discuss with the mother? I'm not even saying its right but its obvious they see things differently.

I ain't one of those parents that lets my kids decided shit like that. So if I feel my son need a haircut then thats just what it is he ain't got no say so in that.

So what mama feel don’t matter when it comes to y’all sons hair. It’s what daddy say?

 

[Playboy buddy rose]

My stance is only with long hair, any thing else then no discussion is needed. If they had a girl would the mother discuss hairstyles with the dad

Preach

 

[Playboy buddy rose]

Truth told tha momma was feminizing her son wit all that long hair

 

[rip.dilla]

So Black men with long or full hair from birth were emasculated or made feminine? Is that the argument now or yall are just envious cos yall are going bald or bald already?

 

[Dwayne]

Truth told tha momma was feminizing her son wit all that long hair

This is some of the dumbest shit in this thread so far

 

[Loquacious]

Truth told tha momma was feminizing her son wit all that long hair

Nigga what

 

[Hundredeyes]

Your last sentence contradicts your own point. If the kid will eventually grow out of the religion anyway then it don't matter when they got baptized at 2 months 2 years or 20 years old. And who the fuck is going to be denied a job because their parents posted a baby picture of them?

People aint just posting baby pictures out there but entire childhoods...loads of kids will have trouble getting into politics or jobs that require anonymity...

But point was that people decide all those things for their child but get mad at a father for cutting his sons hair. Phantom your folks putting your entire childhood on fb n da gram...and religious dogma one can shake but circumcision cant be undone.

 

[Dwayne]

People aint just posting baby pictures out there but entire childhoods...loads of kids will have trouble getting into politics or jobs that require anonymity...

But point was that people decide all those things for their child but get mad at a father for cutting his sons hair. Phantom your folks putting your entire childhood on fb n da gram...and religious dogma one can shake but circumcision cant be undone.

LMAO

You done lost it.