I'm furious!
Cutting your son's hair: Fair or foul?
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Hundredeyes
Active Member
Lmao, this mofo will let his son walk around like cousin it.
Hundredeyes
Active Member
Shit, judging from the pic, the kid obviously needed a haircut.
Kid probably happy af now that he doesnt have to spend an hour+ a day just taking care of his hair lol.
You see the kid face, he doesn't look happy
How you so blind with a hundred eyes?
Hundredeyes
Active Member
Might have been afraid of the barber, I still remember that sesame street not going to the barber song lol.
Kids are afraid to go to the dentist and a shitload of other shit. Its not always that serious.
OhMars
MEH!
You must have never seen Marco Polo
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
very true......there is always a back story...
but those years the nigga coulda still did what he wanted just like he did now.
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
people are different when kids are involved or a break up happens. especially when a new person is involved.
OhMars
MEH!
Thats why I ask whats a compromise. He automatically loses if he does nothing and she automatically loses if he does. So whats the compromise.
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
but we dont know if the child was manipulated to have that reaction.
It look like he's still in the barbershop and his dad took him there, the dad would want him smiling
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
the compromise is being an involved parent from the get go.
unless the other parent didnt allow him to see the kid until now there is no other reason to let it go this long and just do shit.
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
but the mother could stress the beauty in hair, long hair
OhMars
MEH!
This has nothing to do with involvement. Just preferences.
One parent prefers one thing the other parent the other, where is the meet in the middle.
Chi said it best, it should be what child wants at that point.
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
sorry but i am not a parent that will allow a child to make a decision.
the child can present an idea. that kids looks like hes like 3 or 4.
im not trynna hear nothing until they can articulate what they want.
and yes, it is about being involved from the get go.....if he didnt like long hair and she did...how did she get what she wanted and he didnt? but now she mad at what he wanted.
their is a lack of respect and communication some where.
at what point did the nigga think the hair was too long before now?
it didnt grow that long between visits.
Ibex
Active Member
They’re called braids negro, and there’s plenty of ways to style your child’s hair without cutting it.
808HiLife808
Refugee
Barber gave him a crispy ass line..
But yea like someone said, we dont know the backstory. Regardless though, for lil dudes hair to have been that long it looks kinda like that was a spite cut...
But yea like someone said, we dont know the backstory. Regardless though, for lil dudes hair to have been that long it looks kinda like that was a spite cut...
Hundredeyes
Active Member
To each its own, my son is 2 n a half, I cut his hair myself 3 times so far...nothing wrong with cutting your childs hair from time to time. Back in Indo everyone thought it was weird I rarely cut his hair and here in Holland folks think its weird I actually do cut his hair lol.
not today