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Cutting your son's hair: Fair or foul?

Foul I wouldn’t cut my son’s hair until he’s at least 5. All y’all cutting their hair early are setting their kid up for that Safaree hairline
 
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Question to the Co-Parents, what if yall dont agree on something how do you move forward. Both of yall feel strongly about it, whats the compromise
 
But what about the son?
Read the very next sentence b

I don't do shit involving my son without going thru their mother. I let them decide what they wanna do and then approach it with theri moms. Between the 3 of us we come up with something that works.

At the end of the day, the deciding factor is my kids happiness. My 5yo really considering cutting her locs. It'll break my heart and her mom has already said hell no but ultimately its my daughters choice. Thankfully my 5yo changes her mind like she changes dresses so it's been a few days since she mentioned it
 
Regular haircuts aren't important so I decide what he gets. I dont know shit about girls hairstyles so mom got control of that. It's just some things that isn't that important
As long as yall both agree to those terms.

I don't see what's so difficult about being on the same page
 
Read the very next sentence b

I don't do shit involving my son without going thru their mother. I let them decide what they wanna do and then approach it with theri moms. Between the 3 of us we come up with something that works.

At the end of the day, the deciding factor is my kids happiness. My 5yo really considering cutting her locs. It'll break my heart and her mom has already said hell no but ultimately its my daughters choice. Thankfully my 5yo changes her mind like she changes dresses so it's been a few days since she mentioned it
Shit my fault yo you did say that.


Its my off day and I been drinking since 7am
 
Question to the Co-Parents, what if yall dont agree on something how do you move forward. Both of yall feel strongly about it, whats the compromise
present a logic argument....otherwise we doing what i see fit.

aint got time for the latest fad and they'll look cute.
if it dont make sense....it aint happening
 
present a logic argument....otherwise we doing what i see fit.

aint got time for the latest fad and they'll look cute.
if it dont make sense....it aint happening
But in this hair cutting case, there really isnt any logic on any side. It's just preference.
 
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threads like this make me wonder.......if niggas in here saying this....
why niggas out there acting like they aint got no home training?

who lying?
 
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But in this hair cutting case, there really isnt any logic on any side. It's just preference.
even with preference......it has to make sense.

in this case......the kids hair was long as fuck.
you cant let shit go then one day wanna stand up.

this is dudes fault and he foul
 
Threads like this are a constant reminder for me to always strap up.

I couldnt live with a having a angry baby mother man.

I was chilling with my boy yesterday who was going through it with his. Smh.

Came home and ordered the big box of condoms on Amazon.
i get the point you are trying to make

but you dont know how a breakup/separation will effect someone moving forward after that
 
even with preference......it has to make sense.

in this case......the kids hair was long as fuck.
you cant let shit go then one day wanna stand up.

this is dudes fault and he foul
They could have been arguing about the kids hair for years, we have no back story.
 
I agree you have to take take account what the kid want. Look at the picture, that boy didn't want no damn haircut by how his face looking
 
So if it's a little girl who had long hair and the mom's cut it short like Amber Rose and the girl only 4

Y'all still mad, it it's a girl so y'all dgaf
 
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