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Fair or Foul? Woman spews hate towards father

Fair or foul

  • Foul AF spend time with him in old age

    Votes: 17 89.5%

  • Fair he should have been there earlier in life

    Votes: 2 10.5%
  • Total voters
    19
JermyCage said:
That’s how the game go..a man gotta find his happiness in himself when he make the sacrifice to have a family. That’s why I be tryna tell young niggaz, don’t get married. It ain’t what you think it is.
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Man get the fuck outta here. Y’all miggas gotta stop being depressed because of responsibility yall signed up for. Your kids can live you if you are there for them and still go to work millions of humans do this everyday for 1000s of years.
 
Dwayne said:
And smh at sharing this to the world on Twitter

Disgusting.


At least on here if we share some shit on here we have built some kind of relationship
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Yeah. I've told y'all about how I feel about my father.

But I never posted that shit on FB or Twitter or no shit like that
 
HellCzar said:
Man get the fuck outta here. Y’all miggas gotta stop being depressed because of responsibility yall signed up for. Your kids can live you if you are there for them and still go to work millions of humans do this everyday for 1000s of years.
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You right
 
I dealt with some of the same with my dad. At times I am pissed with him over some of the things that he did or didn’t do. But then talking to other family members, I learned it was a learned behavior that he got from his father my grandfather. His dad basically worked to provide for the family and didn’t really showed any emotion. It really depends on the generation.
 
BlackAx410 said:
I dont feel like I’m with the wrong person at all
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Make sure you know how to laugh together.
That’s hella important
Dint take life too serious
Plan yrs in advance, have a goal for the family.
Respect each other and each other’s strengths. Never look at things like you know more or know better, just express your perspective.
it takes a lot but it doesn’t have to be hard which makes it easier.
 
I think a balance can be had but kids should stay in a kids place. They don’t know why the dad worked the way he did but I bet they never walked away from the fruits of his labor.
kids process shit as kids and too often it Carries into adulthood.
Did she ever ask why?
Or was being angry and disrespectful enough?
An if she had a brother , he’s a whole hoe.
Like it’s kids who don’t have dads or dads being touchy or abusive and they mad he worked?
Such entitlement.
Both parents are to blame if that’s the case
 
mryounggun said:
Na, I just think you’re being naive. Usually I’m with you on shit like this.

Also, I’m not scared of you, my nigga. That reply felt vaguely threatening and I don’t like it.
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How I’m being naive?
If the dad is always working, what the message delivered while he’s absent is more important than the balance.
If a kid doesn’t understand balance, they make their own assumptions and they are often wrong because they dint have enough life experience .
If dad is never home but mommy is, convos need to be had. They are either constructive or destructive.
it’s either daddy working hard to provide for us or
Daddy selfish and don’t want to be around us.
But what if mommy is hard to live with?
What if they are in debt?
What if daddy is caring for a sick relative?
It’s a lot of scenarios other than he wasn’t home.
And yea my shit was slightly aggressive and semi threatening. So what
 
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