When did I vilify you? I simply asked you a question.
People have turned this whole thing into it being about women's equality, when that has nothing to do with why it was set up like this.
For example.
You get married to a guy and decide to keep your last name. Yall have a son who takes his wife's last name, that family name is now gone. 3 generations down the line damn near all family names will be irrelevant. Family names used to mean something "we're the smiths, take pride in that" . It was set up like this to keep some type of structure and order so that family names and lineage can live on through history, it has nothing to do with shitting on women or telling them that their name means nothing and your husband owns you , etc. That's what people have turned it into.
when did I say u vilified me?
i have no problem being the only 1 that holds the view (so far, as far as thread participants), but i am telling the truth when i say u r not really getting the opportunity to ask that.
the population ur tryna direct the question to isn't even here. so u saying ppl have turned it into xyz is BS unless u have had the opportunity to give them the chance to speak their point of view.
n ur scenario is super, super faulty.
firstly, the same cld be said if a family have all daughters n give their daughters the father's name. n those daughters go on to marry men and take those men's names. does that mean the act of having daughters makes last names meaningless?
secondly, lets say we're in an alternate world where instead of names being passed down thru the fathers line, they're passed down thru the mothers line. how would the world be any different than it currently is? it's the same damn thing, just flipped. the same thing of name-line erasure happens when families have all daughters under the current system.
n ur conflating 2 different issues. a woman not changing her name on marriage has no link to what name they choose to give their child.
Take Holland for example. Women keep their own names when they get married, but kids always get their fathers name. That's the norm there.
make a separate thread for naming children cuz taking a spouse's name or not taking a spouse's name can be a dilemma with couples who never even plan on having kids. 2 separate (if related) issues.