You can easily call a deadbeat father a deadbeat father if they're a deadbeat father. Same is true for deadbeat mothers. There's single fathers out there who've had full responsibility of their kids since day one cause mom didn't wanna be a mom or whatever. Father names the baby. Should he have to name the baby whatever first name the mother wants when she ain't about to do shit for the child? Nope. Similarly, a woman about to raise a child on her own, without the father cause he not tryna be a father, shouldn't have to give the child the fathers name. Her name matters more in that case. And what you mean the father creates the child? You been pregnant nikka? Women put in wayyy more work, all the work really. So what are you even saying? And what of women who don't know who the father of their child is? She better give the baby her name. And if ever that child finds out who his father is it'll be a DNA test, not a what's yo last name test. Names are not that serious. What you do for your child is much more relevant.