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After the first time
So she was under a spell? lol ok bruh
Again, absolving full grown adults of all accountability is only doing them a disservice.
So basically chastising her for not acting earlier on is deserved?
After the first time
So she was under a spell? lol ok bruh
Again, absolving full grown adults of all accountability is only doing them a disservice.
y they unsupervised? I blame ur ass for neglect.Realest. If a kid puts their hand on a hot stove , you'll probably blame the stove.
I still don't know what we arguing about....??She admitted to getting beat up 3 times and once she was thrown down a flight of fuckin stares , WHY IS IT TAKING A TEXT THREAT TO REPORT THIS MF!!!?!!
His ass should've been locked under the jail by now. NOBODY IN THIS THREAD IS DEFENDING THAT MF.
I still don't know what we arguing about....??
I'm not her idk what her reasons are. She broke up with him 2 years ago and (I'm assuming) was prepared to live with the fact she was in a bad relationship until she had to provide receipts behind why she wanted this baby voice ass nigga to get gone. She's not asking for him to be in jail, she's not suing him and asking him for money, she just wants this nigga to stop acting like she belongs to him or owes him something and to leave her alone.
To me it ain't even bout whether it's deserved. It's about what this backlash is accomplishing. Some woman contemplating legal proceedings when she's finally built herself up to handle that process, sees the backlash "delayed action taking" victims get and reconsiders?So basically chastising her for not acting earlier on is deserved?
So you have nothing to refute what I said?So she was under a spell? lol ok bruh
So you have nothing to refute what I said?
You noticed that too?!So you have nothing to refute what I said?
Pettyrick Douglass .;l'//Well said, we need u around more Gabi. Wish more knew how to respond with out feelings.
To me it ain't even bout whether it's deserved. It's about what this backlash is accomplishing. Some woman contemplating legal proceedings when she's finally built herself up to handle that process, sees the backlash "delayed action taking" victims get and reconsiders?
The past can't be undone. She ain't a time traveler. Would y'all rather she NEVER said shit cuz too much time passed?
Now you taking my words out of context, here's exactly what I said:What do you say to a nigga that thinks these chicks are under spells and have no way of leaving an abusive relationship lol
Now you taking my words out of context, here's exactly what I said:
" Real life aint like the movies where the victim gets revenge on the abuser like j lo. I think @BNE mentioned power dynamics in abusive relationships. In the dynamic the abuser is the dominant force and the sub is the abused, there's been plenty of studies that show the power that the dom has over the sub and the lengths that the sub will go to justify and downplay the abusive behavior of the dom. It's almost like the abused is under a spell and no amount of reasoning will get through to them until they're ready to see reality for what it is."
We can't be wrong, this is the internet.Its ok to say "Im wrong" you know.....
its perfectly ok to say "after taking into account other people's perspective, my perspective has since changed"
its all gravy
we all are learning and unlearning
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Why so hostile? Just saying its ok to admit when you're wrong
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