Karrueche Gets Restraining Order On Chris Brown, Says He's Abusive

Me after I read one of @BNE post
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atribecalledGabi said:
I still don't know what we arguing about....??

I'm not her idk what her reasons are. She broke up with him 2 years ago and (I'm assuming) was prepared to live with the fact she was in a bad relationship until she had to provide receipts behind why she wanted this baby voice ass nigga to get gone. She's not asking for him to be in jail, she's not suing him and asking him for money, she just wants this nigga to stop acting like she belongs to him or owes him something and to leave her alone.
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Well said, we need u around more Gabi. Wish more knew how to respond with out feelings.
 
Joshua said:
So you have nothing to refute what I said?
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What do you say to a nigga that thinks these chicks are under spells and have no way of leaving an abusive relationship lol


At that point there's no reasoning.
 
I wanted to ask that too. Would she still be blamed if Crackrocks Brown actually murdered(s) her?

"Ol stupid bih. Why didn't she ever call the cops? Ehh...but R.I.P."

She gon receive an L regardless it seems.
BNE said:
To me it ain't even bout whether it's deserved. It's about what this backlash is accomplishing. Some woman contemplating legal proceedings when she's finally built herself up to handle that process, sees the backlash "delayed action taking" victims get and reconsiders?

The past can't be undone. She ain't a time traveler. Would y'all rather she NEVER said shit cuz too much time passed?
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TheMasterKey said:
What do you say to a nigga that thinks these chicks are under spells and have no way of leaving an abusive relationship lol
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Now you taking my words out of context, here's exactly what I said:

" Real life aint like the movies where the victim gets revenge on the abuser like j lo. I think @BNE mentioned power dynamics in abusive relationships. In the dynamic the abuser is the dominant force and the sub is the abused, there's been plenty of studies that show the power that the dom has over the sub and the lengths that the sub will go to justify and downplay the abusive behavior of the dom. It's almost like the abused is under a spell and no amount of reasoning will get through to them until they're ready to see reality for what it is."
 
If a chick continued to a go back to a nigga who continuously beat her ass to the point one day he killed her, it's her fault.


If somebody did drugs to the point one day it killed them... guess what, it's their fault.
 
Joshua said:
Now you taking my words out of context, here's exactly what I said:

" Real life aint like the movies where the victim gets revenge on the abuser like j lo. I think @BNE mentioned power dynamics in abusive relationships. In the dynamic the abuser is the dominant force and the sub is the abused, there's been plenty of studies that show the power that the dom has over the sub and the lengths that the sub will go to justify and downplay the abusive behavior of the dom. It's almost like the abused is under a spell and no amount of reasoning will get through to them until they're ready to see reality for what it is."
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I'm not buying it. A grown woman can leave whenever she wants to, if she decides to stay, she gets no sympathy from me.
 
Its ok to say "Im wrong" you know.....
its perfectly ok to say "after taking into account other people's perspective, my perspective has since changed"

its all gravy
we all are learning and unlearning
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TheMasterKey said:
If a chick continued to a go back to a nigga who continuously beat her ass to the point one day he killed her, it's her fault.


If somebody did drugs to the point one day it killed them... guess what, it's their fault.
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She left though...So if he kills her now, she still to blame?
 
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