Karrueche Gets Restraining Order On Chris Brown, Says He's Abusive

[shutupGabi]

How many asswhoopins does it take to get a restraining order?

She probly thought she was settling that by breaking up with him. The restraining order came about the same time he posted that wackass video saying he stalks his exes and he ain't gon let nobody else have em if he can't.

Where in there am I supposed to look at this and say "wow I'm shocked Chris Brown would ever do something like this, karaoke lying"

 

[Goldie]

She probly thought she was settling that by breaking up with him. The restraining order came about the same time he posted that wackass video saying he stalks his exes and he ain't gon let nobody else have em if he can't.

Where in there am I supposed to look at this and say "wow I'm shocked Chris Brown would ever do something like this, karaoke lying"

WHo in here said she was lying?

 

[Goldie]

'/'/' Aight bruh, yall just don't get it.

What don't we get?

 

[Remedy]

Haven't they been spilt ..going on about 2 years now? Every since news broke about him having a child...So why are people saying she's just now leaving? This nigga been yelling her name in songs..throwing hints on social media..etc . about wanting her back for at least 2 years..Lol..

To bring into question what took her so long to bring up old abuse is flat out stupid. The old events are being used as validation for the judge to determine whether his threats of physical harm and death are viable.

Then the argument of "she knew what she was getting into", he was a known woman beater... Yea, ok. If people determined who they dated by how their potential s/o's past relationships went, there would be wayyy more single ass people. I personally wouldn't date a known dirtbag but to say she got what she deserved is disgusting.

 

[Golden]

WHo in here said she was lying?

y so stubborn

 

[Race Jones]

I swear y'all niggas keep poking the bear.

I am trying to keep this shit under one paragraph per post.

Y'all don't want to see UnknownUser.

 

[Black 🖤]

Why shouldn't we?

Look, it's our responsibility to let these women know that keeping your mouth shut empowers these men.

No one wants to see this going on, and the person who is in the best position to stop it Needs to be constantly reminded that they have the power to do so...

Stop being scared of these Niggaz, more people got your back than you think, and by aggressively voicing our displeasure with silence, hopefully that encourages the next to speak out earlier instead of being coddled and coached into thinking you have no power to stop the abuse

Are you saying it's ok to bash to make an example out of the situation?

I wanna be clear on the "Why shouldn't we?" rhetoric.

 

[shutupGabi]

WHo in here said she was lying?

That's the implication isn't it? That this somehow loses its credibility because she did it now and not when it first happened? Otherwise if the belief isn't that this is a lie, what are we arguing about, King?

:hmm:

 

[Goldie]

Then the argument of "she knew what she was getting into", he was a known woman beater... Yea, ok. If people determined who they dated by how their potential s/o's past relationships went, there would be wayyy more single ass people. I personally wouldn't date a known dirtbag but to say she got what she deserved is disgusting.

So you feel it's wrong for people to say she or anybody should take a person's past into account when determining getting into a relationship with them, to turn around and say that you should take it to into account? lol yall just arguing to argue at this point.


Yall writing long ass paragraphs to finish it with agreeing to what we're saying lol sadda dena bitch

 

[Golden]

Gonna give me high blood pressure. Lemme get some ice cream.

 

[Race Jones]

Haven't they been spilt ..going on about 2 years now? Every since news broke about him having a child...So why are people saying she's just now leaving? This nigga been yelling her name in songs..throwing hints on social media..etc . about wanting her back for at least 2 years..Lol..

To bring into question what took her so long to bring up old abuse is flat out stupid. The old events are being used as validation for the judge to determine whether his threats of physical harm and death are viable.

Then the argument of "she knew what she was getting into", he was a known woman beater... Yea, ok. If people determined who they dated by how their potential s/o's past relationships went, there would be wayyy more single ass people. I personally wouldn't date a known dirtbag but to say she got what she deserved is disgusting.

 

[Goldie]

That's the implication isn't it? That this somehow loses its credibility because she did it now and not when it first happened? Otherwise if the belief isn't that this is a lie, what are we arguing about, King?

:hmm:

She admitted to getting beat up 3 times and once she was thrown down a flight of fuckin stares , WHY IS IT TAKING A TEXT THREAT TO REPORT THIS MF!!!?!!

His ass should've been locked under the jail by now. NOBODY IN THIS THREAD IS DEFENDING THAT MF.

 

[Joshie Kahn]

What don't we get?

I keep repeating myself but it seems to go over your head. Real life aint like the movies where the victim gets revenge on the abuser like j lo. I think @BNE mentioned power dynamics in abusive relationships. In the dynamic the abuser is the dominant force and the sub is the abused, there's been plenty of studies that show the power that the dom has over the sub and the lengths that the sub will go to justify and downplay the abusive behavior of the dom. It's almost like the abused is under a spell and no amount of reasoning will get through to them until they're ready to see reality for what it is.

Now add that on top of the victim blaming and shoulda, woulda, coulda critics and you'll see how hard it is for victims to not only separate/protect themselves from the abuser but also come out and tell the world about the abuse.

 

[Remedy]

So you feel it's wrong for people to say she or anybody should take a person's past into account when determining getting into a relationship with them, to turn around and say that you should take it to into account? lol yall just arguing to argue at this point.


Yall writing long ass paragraphs to finish it with agreeing to what we're saying lol sadda dena bitch

No, i'm saying that everybody has done questionable shit in their past, just like Chris maybe not as bad. For whatever reason she overlooked it..as many people do the past of the people they date. I'm saying she is no different than anybody else who overlook these things and don't deserve to be bashed or called stupid for doing so.

 

[NoOneImportant]

Gonna give me high blood pressure. Lemme get some ice cream.

Naw nigga, you want ice cream because you love sugar and have impulse control issues.

:uk:

You gonna give yourself high blood pressure trying to be like your hero @Race Jones.

I have to step away for like 30 minutes...

 

[Goldie]

After the first time

I keep repeating myself but it seems to go over your head. Real life aint like the movies where the victim gets revenge on the abuser like j lo. I think @BNE mentioned power dynamics in abusive relationships. In the dynamic the abuser is the dominant force and the sub is the abused, there's been plenty of studies that show the power that the dom has over the sub and the lengths that the sub will go to justify and downplay the abusive behavior of the dom. It's almost like the abused is under a spell and no amount of reasoning will get through to them until they're ready to see reality for what it is.

Now add that on top of the victim blaming and shoulda, woulda, coulda critics and you'll see how hard it is for victims to not only separate/protect themselves from the abuser but also come out and tell the world about the abuse.

So she was under a spell? lol ok bruh

Again, absolving full grown adults of all accountability is only doing them a disservice.

 

[Goldie]

No, i'm saying that everybody has done questionable shit in their past, just like Chris maybe not as bad. For whatever reason she overlooked it..as many people do the past of the people they date. I'm saying she is no different than anybody else who overlook these things and don't deserve to be bashed or called stupid for doing so.

If you fuck with a crackhead , there's a good chance they might sell ur dvd player, it is what it is. She should've known better and she knows it.

 

[Race Jones]

Naw nigga, you want ice cream because you love sugar and have impulse control issues.

:uk:

You gonna give yourself high blood pressure trying to be like your hero @Race Jones.

I have to step away for like 30 minutes...

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Im dying laughing
NOT WHITE MEN CANT JUMP! lmaoooooo
you so dramatic

 

[Golden]

Naw nigga, you want ice cream because you love sugar and have impulse control issues.

:uk:

You gonna give yourself high blood pressure trying to be like your hero @Race Jones.

I have to step away for like 30 minutes...

May or may not be true

If you fuck with a crackhead , there's a good chance they might sell ur dvd player, it is what it is. She should've known better and she knows it.

U n ur pull urself up by the bootstraps mentality

 

[Goldie]

May or may not be true

U n ur pull urself up by the bootstraps mentality

Realest. If a kid puts their hand on a hot stove , you'll probably blame the stove.