You know what would help relationships? If you could give your girl a piece of jewelry that she could wear. That when she wants you to just listen It shines a different color, and when she wants advice, it shines a different color.
Like, legitimately, that could save relationships. Cause some women have issues just saying I just want you to listen to me right now. It would be like helping put pride away to say it without saying it.
And for a guy, his would be like, let me vent or let me vent and suck my dick afterwards