Child Support - Fair or Foul?

Savage Du said:
shits fuckign retarded...it's a bullshit system, and i literally loathe the shit
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It's crazy breh, that's why it's imperative for dudes to understand, you can be a fucking shinning knight and do everything right with your child and that woman the minute she feels a certain way, can go downtown and file a petition and 97% of the time, there's nothing you as a man can do about it but take the shit raw in the ass.

What's crazy, going back to what you said, you thinking you have a good woman, you thinking she'll never do that to you and then all of a sudden, you getting that letter in the mailbox about a child support petition,

Yea, you mean to tell me, you will be the bigger person with a big heart be ok with that and not go off on her ass like dude did in the skit?
 
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Kandy said:
Yes in Texas, when you file for assistance. You have to provide the dads info and they will file for child support. I went in and said I didn't know who the dad was.
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You can't play thst card if they signed the birth certificate tho
 
Knock_Twice said:
I threw the church in part to support this woman good moral, she's a dove, your post indicated only fuck'd women put dudes on child support and that's not the case at all.
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naw, that's a bad parallel, church has nothing to do with how trifling a person is...there's mad trifling people and folk of low morals in the church....

adding that has nothing to do with this argument whatsoever
 
Savage Du said:
dawg ive seen horror stories too,

i seen dudes who had full custody of the children they were still paying child support for....
the system as a whole is fucked up

but my point is this nigga knew shorty was gonna be a problem when he hooked up with her.....

and for the dudes going down and offering before she puts him in to get lower payments,.....they already recognized or have came to the agreement that they fucked up at some point and are cutting their losses....the system is dirty as shit....it's a dirty game... but niggaz be choosing to play dirty man....

i'm a firm believe you can see it early...chicks don't just start being grimey....that shit surfaced before.....

it still comes all the way back to using better judgment on who you give your seed to
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Breh, there's no judgement with that, You can't pick a good woman and think when yall break up and you marry someone else or being dating someone else, she won't get mad and put yo ass on papers

You really think there's women like that in the world that will let you live in peace with your new wife/gf, especially if you're a good dude and you've moved on from her and she's still single and lonely, you really think that setup will be all gravy??

Man Look Lol
 
I'm not going to try and speak from a position like I know everything so let me say, I'm not familiar with no other state outside of Louisiana. Hell, Louisiana is either the only state or one of the few that require the two parties that are getting a divorce to be separated 12 months first if they have children. Other states either do 6 months and the rest make it final as soon as the papers are signed by the judge.

With that said, in the state of Louisiana, just because you are a woman and walk into a court trying to file papers, they not just gon automatically put a dude on support. Again, this not a one size fits all approach. If you have done the bare minimum or Jack shit, don't be surprised you gon end up contributing something.

There is a formula involved based on income levels between the two parties. How bout you seed up a chick who not working an hourly wage. That might help the scales in your favor if you make a significant amount of money compared to her.

But, let's say, you have checks, receipts, etc showing that not only do you contribute financially, you do it every single month without missing a beat. Who can argue that you need to pay more? At that point all going to court does is take the moment directly out of your hands to give to the mother who is just going to turn around and, hopefully, do the exact same thing?

At that point, it's just the perception that she has you court ordered to do something you were already doing in the first place.
 
Judge_Judah said:
You can't play thst card if they signed the birth certificate tho
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Yes, you can. You file for it before you have the baby. Medicaid, SNAP, they ask you who is the dad and try to start filing BUT the second he signs that birth certificate and you are still using assistance. You are fucked.
 
Savage Du said:
naw, that's a bad parallel, church has nothing to do with how trifling a person is...there's mad trifling people and folk of low morals in the church....

adding that has nothing to do with this argument whatsoever
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Breh,

There's no way that all those women who go downtown that file petition for child support are fuck up women? No way

You can't say that all those women are fuck'd up in the head
 
Knock_Twice said:
It's crazy breh, that's why it's imperative for dudes to understand, you can be a fucking shinning knight and do everything right with your child and that woman the minute she feels a certain way, can go downtown and file a petition and 97% of the time, there's nothing you as a man can do about it but take shit raw in the ass.

What's crazy, going back to what you said, you thinking you have a good woman, you thinking she'll never do that to you and then all of a sudden, you getting that letter in the mailbox about a child support petition,

Yea, you mean to tell me, you will be the bigger person with a big heart be ok with that and not go off on her ass like dude did in the skit?
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like i said bruh,

you gotta stop living in this fairy tail world where there's no build up to anything....

every moment in our life is arrived to through a series of decisions.....

that's how reality works

those calls don't just happen
those kids don't just happen
those chicks don't...just ...happen


ain't no situation where you do everything right like a knight in shining armor or whatever you said that has nothing to do with this....

in reality....a long series of bad decisions lead up to this point...and until niggaz recognize that....realize that...and stop making bad decision after bad decision....maybe they can avoid outcomes where you flipping out cuz trifling chick is doing some trifling shit to you for the umpteenth time....
 
Knock_Twice said:
Breh,

There's no way that all those women who go downtown that file petition for child support are fuck up women? No way

You can't say that all those women are fuck'd up in the head
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yes i can

there's a lotta fucked up people in this world
 
Knock_Twice said:
Breh, there's no judgement with that, You can't pick a good woman and think when yall break up and you marry someone else or being dating someone else, she won't get mad and put yo ass on papers

You really think there's women like that in the world that will let you live in peace with your new wife/gf, especially if you're a good dude and you've moved on from her and she's still single and lonely, you really think that setup will be all gravy??

Man Look Lol
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yup....

they absolutely exist....

my mom was like that, my wife is like that......there are many women like that......

maybe if you don't realize they don't exist you don't look for them, and just settle for any ole thing.....

maybe in that regard i got lucky by being raised by one
 
Knock_Twice said:
Breh, there's no judgement with that, You can't pick a good woman and think when yall break up and you marry someone else or being dating someone else, she won't get mad and put yo ass on papers

You really think there's women like that in the world that will let you live in peace with your new wife/gf, especially if you're a good dude and you've moved on from her and she's still single and lonely, you really think that setup will be all gravy??

Man Look Lol
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I let my ex live in peace.
 
Savage Du said:
like i said bruh,

you gotta stop living in this fairy tail world where there's no build up to anything....

every moment in our life is arrived to through a series of decisions.....

that's how reality works

those calls don't just happen
those kids don't just happen
those chicks don't...just ...happen


ain't no situation where you do everything right like a knight in shining armor or whatever you said that has nothing to do with this....

in reality....a long series of bad decisions lead up to this point...and until niggaz recognize that....realize that...and stop making bad decision after bad decision....maybe they can avoid outcomes where you flipping out cuz trifling chick is doing some trifling shit to you for the umpteenth time....
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Ok Du

I hear you breh

You gotta put ppl in roles.


Let's say you wasn't married.

Let's say you picked out a g/f, you got her pregnant and things didn't work out, and yall broke up. I'ma even say, yall had good break-up, she went her way and you went your way, you still in the child life and all, still providing


What would stop her from just waking up one day, having a feeling about your current situation (you being married) not go downtown to put you on child support?

How would you stop that?

Remember the g/f you picked didn't show red flags and isn't trifling but she seeing you with a new girl/wife isn't sitting well with her while she's lonely and alone
 
Kandy said:
So every woman who files for child support is trifling?
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maybe not every.....

as i said i hate to use blanket statements....

but one outta the two is trifling for sure.......and the other has to share some of that shit for breeding with them....

i only say that because ideally child support wouldn't even have to be on the table. something went wrong. some things were said. and at some point the realization was made that this person had to be ordered by state to take care of their own child.

And i'm sorry if this is a difficult point of view to accept. I'm sorry if it makes you feel some kinda way. But if you need the state to force the other parent of your child to take care of them. You fucked up somewhere along the line. That's not the kinda mistake I would think anyone would repeat.

NO one wants to make a child with someone they have to force to be in the child's life. A mistake was made. That much is certain.
 
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