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Would Things Be Different If the Child or Children Goes To Live With The Father?
- Thread starter Vic Damone Jr
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And folks be kissed at the teacher! Like they asked for classes with 27 students
Vic Damone Jr
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Bingo
Sturdy Harris
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Fam, what are you doing with this? Lol
Meeks
The One with the Pretty Eyes.
Nigga you clearly live in an alternate reality. Most fathers do not want their children full time.
Fuck outta here with that.
Vic Damone Jr
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Why are you getting emotional? Can you have a solid discussion without catching feelings? Black fathers do not want their children full time for what reason do you say why?
Read this again, then again, then again and one more time for good measure
You about 3 more posts from just going back to whatever hole you crawled out of but damn this some ignorant shit
Sturdy Harris
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On the real, my highschool ain't even have textbooks till halfway through junior year and this was 2004-2005
Meeks
The One with the Pretty Eyes.
Passionate*
Let’s correct your choice of words first and foremost. As a Black woman heavily in these birthing streets supporting Black women and families, the reality is many Black men do not support or want their children full time. You wanting yours doesn’t count for the many who do not.
And when I’m passionate, I’ll say whatever tf I want and how I want to.
Meeks
The One with the Pretty Eyes.
How about you put that energy into asking those Black fathers why instead of bashing Black women and asking us. We aren’t Black men, do better.
I think in a perfect world, after a breakup, both parents should want equality in the input they have as it relates to the rearing of the child.
Both parents should want equality in regards to the time spent as well and both parents should want to support each other when necessary
But when feelings are involved, it becomes a matter of people trying to associate outdated gender roles causing things to get unnecessarily messy in the process.
Both should be able to acknowledge what the other parent does well and play to those strengths but then it becomes the dudes vs chicks discussion instead of what's best for the children involved
Both parents should want equality in regards to the time spent as well and both parents should want to support each other when necessary
But when feelings are involved, it becomes a matter of people trying to associate outdated gender roles causing things to get unnecessarily messy in the process.
Both should be able to acknowledge what the other parent does well and play to those strengths but then it becomes the dudes vs chicks discussion instead of what's best for the children involved
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Vic Damone Jr
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What reality are you living where black men do not support or want to care for their children full time? This is not a true statement by saying many. The few that you know, but many? No, that is not true at all.
Meeks
The One with the Pretty Eyes.
I said many and I stand behind what I said. The same way you’re pushing this bullshit in this thread.
MANY because I support Black women by the THOUSANDS. What part is hard for you to understand and comprehend? Ashy ass.
Vic Damone Jr
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You are changing the narrative because you have caught feelings. I presented facts/stats taken from sources who collects the data. You can look at the sources for yourself.
Vic Damone Jr
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You can stand behind all what you want to say, I know it's just feelings based. Many is a false narrative and a wrong statement to even make.
You're so emotional that you have resulted into naming calling. Feelings caught over something that's hard to swallow
I’m sure this Thread is going to turn out well
Meeks
The One with the Pretty Eyes.
You presented bitterness sir. Let’s stick with true facts from the very beginning like I’ve stated. Women who are supported CORRECTLY through pregnancy, birth, and post partum have children who thrive because they thrive. Most Black men aren’t giving that support and other Black men are acknowledging that more and more in 2021.
YOU sir, are in denial. These same unsupportive Black men continue to be unsupportive when they aren’t sharing the responsibilities of parenting FULLTIME and it’s been happening whether you want to acknowledge it or not.
Meeks
The One with the Pretty Eyes.
Yeah, you keep telling yourself that to make you feel better. Emotional or not, what I said are still facts. Emotions do not take away from something being factual.
Meeks
The One with the Pretty Eyes.
My grandfather (rest his soul), was an amazing father and grandfather. Extremely loving and we always had these conversations. He has seen how Black men have failed Black women because he acknowledged the things he has done to aide in that at one point.
It’s called accountability.
It’s called accountability.
Vic Damone Jr
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Children who have thrive? Black women in this country make 28k a year, that is not thriving, black men make 42, that is not thriving. This thrive talk is nothing but your opinion. I raised the question to have the child or children be with the father if the stats say that a black man, the average, is doing better than the mother.
Most black men that are making average wage 42k or more want their children full time