I think with me, I'm super cool being just a friend. I think I give off cousin/family vibes.... It's cool.... I've come to terms and embraced it like mad young.... But if I'm interested... Imma shoot my shot first.... Rejection be damned.... I'll get over it, we can still be cool..... But imma shoot my shot. And it's gonna be obvious. ??I'm the opposite I only bother talking when I know imma hit. I've made the read. Otherwise I won't waste my time. My batting avg high but my I don't take a lot of swings if that makes sense. (I don't know shit about baseball)
I'm no good in the gray area. Once it gets awkward I run lol. You probably thrive there better than me.
It's also great being out the game. That shit be stressful.