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Opening up what though?No
The thread premise is about men not opening up in fear it will be weaponized against them later when the woman gets mad
Thats the shit im wondering.
Lets say my ex cheated on me and now I have a hard time trusting. Is that im supposed to open up on?
Idk man. Maybe i just have some pscyhopathic symptoms. Cause im really not understanding what I'm supposed to be opening up with.
Lets say my dad beat me growing up and I have trauma. Is it that type of shit?
Im not trying to downplay it. But this convo is weird.
What are women saying men should open up about that men are saying they dont trust them to do so.
None of these examples I gave relate to me. But as for me, whatever trauma I do have, that shit burried like a mfer and never surfaces. I dont think about it and it doesnt impact my life. It never even crosses my mind to talk about them with anyone, and thats not a conscious decision.
I think we as men dont have that need for the most part and its not anyones fault.