What is a "pickme" and why do women hate them?

There's a few things I can see at play. First, by advertising herself that way, she's essentially playing the game the way men want: her entire being is dedicated to pleasing men. This perpetuates patriarchal systems of marginalization. Second, if playing the game of gender was a sport, she'd be on the all-star team. How can your average woman realistically compete with her? Obviously, that fuels jealousy and envy. There's also a third: in rap, there's an idea that the song content should speak for itself. If you have to repeatedly tell people you're dope, you probably don't have bars. When you have to constantly draw attention to your strengths, not only does it make you annoying and one dimensional, it also suggests you actually don't have it going on.



Why the need to be anonymous though?



Is it really that serious for you?
 
Why the need to be anonymous though?



Is it really that serious for you?
This is a tea thread bruh....

Everybody who shares it on their social media should get some money or something.....

Shit could fuck around and do numbers
 
This is a tea thread bruh....

Everybody who shares it on their social media should get some money or something.....

Shit could fuck around and do numbers



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Yeah, it definitely seems like something that would get some people in their feelings.


Problem is, those same people wouldn't be able to have an intelligent discussion about it though.


At least not without their emotions getting the best of them.
 
No woman doesn't want a man who just sits on his azzz...do nothing...and expects to be taken care of

A scrub is a guy that thinks he's fly
And is also known as a busta
Always talkin' about what he wants
And just sits on his broke ass
 
Who just sitting on thier ass tho?

I think there's some exaggerating going on....

Shit even at my worst I was a ghetto uber.... Or as we call them in Baltimore...."hack s"
 
Who just sitting on thier ass tho?

I think there's some exaggerating going on....

Shit even at my worst I was a ghetto uber.... Or as we call them in Baltimore...."hack s"

Lol we call them Jitneys
 
People who are overly agreeable are always annoying and always have an ulterior motive.

Never knew what this was before now but it seems like a chick who is overly agreeable about everything relating to men with the ulterior motive being being accepted by more men than the next chick.

That being the case I can understand why some women would hate them and be annoyed by them.
 
Reaching. I don't see them anywhere except the internet and even that's rare cause my timeline's curated. That's at most a "lol let this be a fake account".

Alright alright.

I guess you have an etherous way with words then madame
 
I actually don't see these type of post on my timeline. %95 of the people on my timeline I know or have known or met at some point in time. There are people out there like that though that have that traditional way of thinking. I don't agree with it but if it works for your family, who am I to tell you differently. But I like women with goals and ambition.
 
found it



check Darrick's shit for context if you dont know already
https://www.youtube.com/user/JaxnVideos


I didn't know men knew about team jaxn or the other male relationship coaches out there. I can dig some things he say but for the most part he seems like a kiss ass. I wondered if he was in a relationship or not. Alot of these male coaches like blowing smoke up our asses, especially black women. I feel down inside that they don't care to date us, just want us gawking at their looks and fit bodies. He is very unrealistic while feeling empathy for us. There is another guy named Angel Ramirez, I think he's Puerto Rican and Black or Jamaican, some shyt. Either way he is the poster boy for being a relationship coach kiss ass. His target audience is black women. He gives them false hope, gives the up most compliments, but to me comes off as another deceiver. I just vow not to listen to his ass anymore.
 
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