What is a "pickme" and why do women hate them?

[Shotta]

I know some women think like this. I just always thought it was them just wanting to be a house wife and not work.

A lot of women from small town be on this shit.

 

[Rubato]

It really just comes down to whether a chick genuinely wants to play the traditional role or she just putting on a front.

Either way that’s between her and the dude she with, not some random chicks on the internet who always have an opinion on everything.

 

[Shotta]

A pick me is a chick who goes outa her way to side with her man to the point of being unrealistic or blatantly allowing disrespect just so you can be amenable and look like you can "keep" a relationship...like "my man has never seen me in a bonnet" type shit. Like the equivalent is how we call some dudes simps cuz they go outa their way to get women's attention.

People take it too far and literally call anything you do for a man as being a pick me. They call ayesha curry a pick me...lol


Idc personally and I've never used the term.

oh okay now your definition makes more sense. that shit would be annoying

 

[DOPE33]

never heard of this, but I see where you're going

they got pick me niggas too.....pandering and preaching what wants to be heard

**coughs Darrick Jaxn cough cough**

cant find the video for shit but some dude on ig roasted his ass to bolivia recently

I swear I hate that nigga

 

[AP2.5]

found it



check Darrick's shit for context if you dont know already
https://www.youtube.com/user/JaxnVideos

Yo if a chick out here taking advice from this nigga, she getting left where she stand

 

[Rubato]

Never heard of the Jaxn dude but I’m glad y’all saved me the time of finding out

 

[SeaSnake]

I cannot STAND that nigga!!! Lol

That nigga be like you dont deserve a woman if you aint making 60,000 a year an shit

 

[1/2]

Yo if a chick out here taking advice from this nigga, she getting left where she stand

man my timeline be fulla amens and reposts of this guy

I just glide thru the comments smh

 

[Rubato]

That nigga be like you dont deserve a woman if you aint making 60,000 a year an shit

This reminds me why I stopped going on Facebook lol

 

[Lou Cypher]

Never heard of it

 

[1/2]

Never heard of it

not surprised

dont ya'll just give the girl a pebble and then she's your wife out there?

 

[IP360]

Didn't realize there was an actual name. Just figure she was being traditional. Nothing wrong wit that.

 

[DOPE33]

I dont follow that Derrick nigga but ive had females quote him to me like he Farakhan or something. He says common sense shit an they take it as gospel. Or he tells you what it takes to be a grown man. Like this classic one below.

 

[IP360]

found it



check Darrick's shit for context if you dont know already
https://www.youtube.com/user/JaxnVideos

I watched only 15secs of this and already wanna give him the

treatment

 

[Golden]

A Pick Me is a woman who will see a puddle, lie face down and become a bespoke footpath if that’s what she’s gotta do to ensure her underemployed man’s kicks stay fresh.

 

[1/2]

I watched only 15secs of this and already wanna give him the
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treatment

lol you watched a real video or the spoof?

the real ones will piss you off cuz he's dead serious

at least for the camera/views

I put him in the same boat w/ preachers.....you know damn well what you're doing but nobody else took this lane up so why not?

*cooks up BBW pandering scheme*

 

[Judy Winslow]

Another label. Just great.

Sounds pitiful tho.

 

[DOPE33]

I'm new to this term. So is Ayesha Curry a pickme ? Cause all the ig females hate her

 

[shutupGabi]

I'm new to this term. So is Ayesha Curry a pickme ? Cause all the ig females hate her

To them, yes she is.

 

[konceptjones]

A Pick Me is a woman who will see a puddle, lie face down and become a bespoke footpath if that’s what she’s gotta do to ensure her underemployed man’s kicks stay fresh.

Sooooo... She's a fat white woman?