Dog, I don't think you've really looked into this too much, and I don't blame you. This shit is goofy, so none of us should get too wrapped up in it.
That said, you keeping on saying "I don't see this and I don't see that." You don't see it because you haven't been looking. There are videos of dudes from all over the Western World saying the same shit. It's not just black men. In fact, white dudes been doing this shit for decades. There was even a video posted a while back of a white dude laughing about the fact that black men were being bashed for something that has been common among them for a long time.
Regardless of what you feel about the Passport bros, women in America, Europe, Canada, etc... have moved away from traditional gender roles. Are there some chicks that still want to be housewives, sure, but that's not the average in the Western world anymore. That's just a fact. So if you're a dude that wants a traditional wife, you might very well have a better chance finding her in a country where the culture still puts value in that role for a woman. There really shouldn't be anything controversial about that.