Why talk down or bash American black woman though? Date or marry whom ever you want to but to tear down black american women...low very low. I am very curious if these men that feel that way were raised by an American black woman. Having preference is human but explaining it or broadcasting in a distasteful way is lil boy shit.
Niggas connecting over failed relationships and trauma and linking it to be the American Black woman...man get this shit outta here.
:Pathetic:
Black people dog out and demean each other wholesale. It ain't just some black men dragging Black women or some Black women dragging Black men: We're doing it to each other and it's been illustrated very clearly in this thread.
If a man or woman wants to go abroad to find what they deem to be marriage material, so be it. There was a whole TV show on Black women that went to Rome to find love 'cause apparently there ain't no American Black men "on their level" and it was perfectly fine. That rhetoric, somehow, wasn't supposed to be seen as a slight to Black American men even though it truly is. Black women applauded them RHOA chicks for running out finding rich African men to wife 'em up and that was fine but no one said "Wasn't any rich brothas from here you could have married???". Many of y'all in this very thread have talked down on these dudes as well calling them lames, etc. Y'all don't see that as problematic but they're saying what effectively amounts to the same thing towards Black women is?
How about we stop tearing each other down for a change? And if a man or woman makes the decision to find a spouse abroad, and they're truly happy with whomever they found, can't we simply be happy for him or her??? Do we HAVE to know why they did it??? There's that whole adage "What you eat don't make me shit" that applies here: Why they did it has no bearing on any of us, just let them be happy. It's when you ask them "why" that you get answers you don't want to hear and begin to call them out for being "lame" for their reasons.
Why are you bringing white women into the conversation? There you go, deflecting accountability again. None of the stats you mentioned are relevant to the point being made. Many black women have chosen the single independent government assisted lifestyle over working with the very men they have chosen to lay down with. We're literally the least married group, I don't know why you have to fight me on this. On a balance of probabilities, marriage is not a requirement for neither sex nor childbearing in our community.
I speak from experience, including my own, when I say that American black women have been valuing family less and less over the last generations, whilst glorifying futilities (money fame and status). The silent majority that values family and legacy remains invisible as it is constantly bullied by a very loud Cardi B like group. Re-building your brand as a group won't be done by canceling lames on the internet, it will be done by CHECKING your fellow sisters. But I bet you won't do that, you'd rather get mad at a few normal men who just discovered that they could date out. Newsflash: higher status black men have known and practiced this dating out thing forever.
I personally gave preference to EVERY single American black woman I crossed paths with. Guess what happened? Entitlement, shallowness, and competitiveness in the home. If a man only gets to meet 10 American black women in his life, gives them absolute priority over other groups, yet they display those unattractive traits, what is he supposed to do, wait until the 11th one shows up? Do you know how rare an occurrence that is? Although I stated that black men had more dating prospects outside of their group than black women do (meaning we can date different races easier), they don't have the same number of mating options overall. So at one point, yes, I understand that some men abdicate. Because you won't check each other.
On another note, I was very specific when mentioning AMERICAN black women. I have been blessed with a more global environment, and I can tell you that the same way you think that not all AMERICAN black women embody this so-called stereotype, MOST black women do not embody it whatsoever.
Again. You’re missing the point on purpose along with the ones co-signed.
it’s not a normal occurrence so see black folks hiking in America. A huge majority of black folks don’t live in areas where it’s hiking available.
your small ass view point of one area of this huge country don’t mean it’s something black folks normally take part in
It’s normal to see black folks to pay a sport
It’s not normal to see black folks surf
It’s normal to see black folks listening to rap
It’s not normal to do black folks listen to death metal
Its normal to black folks in a sports car
It’s not normal to see black folks in a lifted truck
It’s really simple and y’all making it difficult.
In one breath y’all argue on here about culture now y’all acting like things that not in our culture is everyday occurrences.
I live in 3 different states across this country and feel comfortable in my assessment.
We just not regular participate in certain activities right now and nothing wrong with admitting that
Speak for yourself, Homie.
Classic shit rite chea. The Cavalera Brothers--Max & Igor--had their shit TIGHT.
I did a ton of hiking back in 2004-2011….. in the clubs
I was walking around the club dancing and talking to some bad ones from Dallas to LA
Also I think you are still using false equivalencies.
Having sex overseas isn't the issue with the PPB. It's them celebrating going overseas to find women who they feel better align with the things they claim they want in a mate while shitting on American women.
To me, an actual equivalent would be women who make the exact types of proclamations or black women shitting on black men to date white ones and making videos about it.
smh... African cat talmbout "Passport Sisters" coming to West African countries in search of young dudes.