I agree with all that.
However, I think it's just as silly to act like it's not feasible that certain types of women are more common outside of this country. We're not going to sit here and act like America doesn't have its ingrained sets of cultures and that most people in this country don't adhere to those cultures.
Of course different countries will produce folks with different ideas on how to go about some things. But the shit these dudes claim to not be able to find in the US they actually can. And it's not as hard as they claim to make it. So if their solution is to go to another country and start dealing with women who still fit a certain aestheic but the only difference is "she's foreign" then it's gonna look funny in the light when that list of grievances becomes less US specific and more specific to one group of people. Because you don't see these niggas going to find Black women in these countries.