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It’s alot of black men that are that go ride through the hood 80% of black ppl are born into poverty but my point is how they pretend that it’s just a BM problem when reality it’s a systemic problem. That’s why the divestor movement is a thing they think getting a white men will fix it

lol Ok, but just because you're black and born into poverty doesn't mean you're a drug dealer or serial twerker. You seem to have a pretty skewed view of black people in general. Or maybe I'm just out of touch.
 
It’s alot of black men that are that go ride through the hood 80% of black ppl are born into poverty but my point is how they pretend that it’s just a BM problem when reality it’s a systemic problem. That’s why the divestor movement is a thing they think getting a white men will fix it

If you haven't seen it, don't mean it's doesn't exist.

Let's help you find a good black american woman

What non physical traits are important to you in a relationship?
 
lol Ok, but just because you're black and born into poverty doesn't mean you're a drug dealer or serial twerker. You seem to have a pretty skewed view of black people in general. Or maybe I'm just out of touch.


Nigga if you born in poverty you are more then likely to commit crime it’s a reason why black people on average commit more crime then white people its because more black people are poor alot of white supremacist like to use that stat and say black people are inherently violent but in reality it just environmental factors that’s not a hot take everybody knows that.
 
Nigga if you born in poverty you are more then likely to commit crime it’s a reason why black people on average commit more crime then white people its because more black people are poor alot of white supremacist like to use that stat and say black people are inherently violent but in reality it just environmental factors that’s not a hot take everybody knows that.

Name a big white gang??? You can’t but you know about Bloods & Crips and shit
 
They are pretty much lost causes that went through some shit with black American women and would rather just bail
I will never understand this shit.
I've met black people who'll have one bad experience with a black partner and write off the whole race.

Ask em if it's been all peachy keen with dating outside the race the answer is No but they're somehow able to overlook the bad experience in dating outside and not write off said race.

Shit doesn't compute 😖
 
A black hiking club in ATL? lol I never knew such a thing existed. I don't know if you've ever been to Hawaii, but the hiking was one of my favorite parts of my trip there.

I'll say the dudes I know ain't nearly as proactive as you though. I don't know how true that is for most guys, but them dudes want to be able to just go to a lounge or bar, meet a chick, and build from there and since they don't know many women of the type they are looking for, they don't have any ins on where to find those women. I feel their pain, but I never know what to tell them.

Yeah they got have some intentions. If they want a more traditional female you think how that chick would be spending her time. Yeah she might go out and twerk with her girls a weekend here or there. But she also might really be into gardening and volunteers at urban farms.

I got into the vegan lifestyle and meet brother's at local farms and community events.


Like what they gonna do with these women when they get with them? Go to bars and lounges and fuck all the time?
People are multi faceted and in my experience when I met people doing things like I described, I found more success.

But I also had to look at and understand what I wanted. For example I have been with a super traditional black man, didn't want me to work, had a certain way we were to communicate with each other. I have also been with men who were less controlling...so those experiences help me learn what I want. I have dated black men from all different walks of life and black men not from America. I was in the military and traveled alot for work and I think traveling is important.

You live in Hawaii? Like permanently I have never been but always wanted to go. They have beautiful hiking trails.
 
I will never understand this shit.
I've met black people who'll have one bad experience with a black partner and write off the whole race.

Ask em if it's been all peachy keen with dating outside the race the answer is No but they're somehow able to overlook the bad experience in dating outside and not write off said race.

Shit doesn't compute 😖

It’s been peachy for me I ain’t had the same problems I had with BW for sure don’t gotta take care of kids that ain’t mine breath of fresh air
 
It's also interesting that many people don't seem to realize that the dating struggles most experience, as @Royal said, often help you figure out what you do and don't want and need from a partner so some of those instances are necessary in life to go through.

Too many folks personalize shit from people they'd never even date. The fact that dudes get up in arms over the dating criteria of a woman they will most likely never have a shot at is just as dumb as when women get mad about a man's dating preferences who'd they neve let touch them with a 10 ft. pole.
 
It's also interesting that many people don't seem to realize that the dating struggles most experience, as @Royal said, often help you figure out what you do and don't want and need from a partner so some of those instances are necessary in life to go through.

Too many folks personalize shit from people they'd never even date. The fact that dudes get up in arms over the dating criteria of a woman they will most likely never have a shot at is just as dumb as when women get mad about a man's dating preferences who'd they neve let touch them with a 10 ft. pole.


Nah BW standards is to high and they have no chance at the niggas they talking about is why they single mothers. The niggas that fit they standard wouldn’t look they way the going for white women And BM dating preferences is concerning because it’s alot of colorist shit like only wanting lightskins and shit on darkskins
 
Nah BW standards is to high and they have no chance at the niggas they talking about is why they single mothers. The niggas that fit they standard wouldn’t look they way the going for white women And BM dating preferences is concerning because it’s alot of colorist shit like only wanting lightskins and shit on darkskins

What you look like ?
 
A black hiking club in ATL? lol I never knew such a thing existed. I don't know if you've ever been to Hawaii, but the hiking was one of my favorite parts of my trip there.

I'll say the dudes I know ain't nearly as proactive as you though. I don't know how true that is for most guys, but them dudes want to be able to just go to a lounge or bar, meet a chick, and build from there and since they don't know many women of the type they are looking for, they don't have any ins on where to find those women. I feel their pain, but I never know what to tell them.

Online apps/social media has definitely thrown a monkey wrench in how we meet and date. Both men and women have gotten lazy cause folks feel like they just get online and slide in a DM. Last time I went out to a bar, everyone was huddled in their groups looking at each other.
 
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