Sexting.

[Race Jones]

I have male friends that tell me about the shit some men say & do and I always catch a nosebleed mid-conversation.

some men out here have no values or morals.

I know HELLA radical dudes that be talking about the environment but treat women like an endlessly exploitable resource.

Some of these dudes are so trash they aint even worth recycling
...just send them to the compost and pray fuckery is biodegradable.

 

[MissK]

After reading @Race Jones comment I don't feel as bad, cause I swore it was only me looking like a zip d*MN fool trying to take full body nudes. Lol

@MissK - do the ones I send you look alright?

I'm bout to start practicing dang it. Haha

Don't get me started love, they are gorgeous!! Seriously that one day I had to take a break at work :clawd:

But I also agree with Race, I feel kind of stupid doing them lol or to get a good shot I have to become a contortionist and then I end up sweaty and unsexy all for one pic. Dudes don't realize that shit is work LMAO

 

[SeaSnake]

I have no problem with sexting but tbh Ive never sent a full body nude in my life.

Some men Ive dated have seen my bare breast in photos but thats about it.

I dont mind taking full body nudes its just that they rarely come out sexy too me

I look and feel dumb when I take them so they never get sent lmaoooo

I need to learn how to take creative nudes. The leg propped up on the sink with the camera right up my pussy aint the wave.

Lmao im dying.

 

[NeighborhoodNomad]

in what ways did your view of her change?

Edit: this is consistent with what I said about revenge not being the usual motivation.

My homies gf/fiance/wife is off limits. If I've seen your entire body inside and out, my imagination will tend to wander more about those images I saw and I don't ever want to look at one of my friends wives sexually. I turn into a super square when I get around married or engaged women. She's trying to have a conversation with me and all I can think about are some of the images I saw and me not being able to flirt or say something just makes everything worse.

I draw the line at marriage.

 

[Loquacious]

Don't get me started love, they are gorgeous!! Seriously that one day I had to take a break at work :clawd:

But I also agree with Race, I feel kind of stupid doing them lol or to get a good shot I have to become a contortionist and then I end up sweaty and unsexy all for one pic. Dudes don't realize that shit is work LMAO

Sweaty! Yessssss! It be getting hot af!!!

 

[Chi-Town B]

:disnig:

After reading @Race Jones comment I don't feel as bad, cause I swore it was only me looking like a zip d*MN fool trying to take full body nudes. Lol

@MissK - do the ones I send you look alright?

I'm bout to start practicing dang it. Haha

Don't get me started love, they are gorgeous!! Seriously that one day I had to take a break at work :clawd:

But I also agree with Race, I feel kind of stupid doing them lol or to get a good shot I have to become a contortionist and then I end up sweaty and unsexy all for one pic. Dudes don't realize that shit is work LMAO

 

[NeighborhoodNomad]

also ladies, the man that youre dealing with probably shown at least one of his homeboys your nudes.
...especially if you two aren't serious

just throwing it out there.

a lot of men are trash.

I low-key expect her to share any pics I've sent with some of her friends as well tho. I keep that in mind like "yeah her friend might see this..." I'm fine with that.

 

[Goldie]

@ this whole thread

:smh:

 

[Loquacious]

I ain't sending my friend no pic of a dude I'm talking to dick. Why?!

 

[Race Jones]

Creating bodyscapes is my next venture when I get a camera. I want to focus on women of color since they aren't really represented in that field. I would like to get started sometime this year. I have a whole lot of creative and artistic ideas for these type of pics that I've never seen before.

I said all that to say you would make a great model for that type of art/photography. @Race Jones

Google images bodyscapes when you get a chance.

Ok, as long as its a tasteful shoot.
Im down.

 

[Race Jones]

That thought makes me physically ill. no exaggeration.

yeah.
But its also based on maturity, I know a lot of men that would never do something like that.

 

[NeighborhoodNomad]

I ain't sending my friend no pic of a dude I'm talking to dick. Why?!

She might not send it. She might show you on her phone when she's around you like "look at this dude I'm/was talking to" type stuff that men be on sometimes.

It's happened to me... fuck it.

 

[Chi-Town B]

In my younger days if a friend showed me a nude of his girl I would try to sleep with her if the body right. I know if the role was reverse they would try it if I showed a pic

 

[NeighborhoodNomad]

Ok, as long as its a tasteful shoot.
Im down.

I wouldn't do it any other way. You'll get to keep/select all the pics too.

 

[Race Jones]

I know but even the thought of a guy's phone being stolen n pics of mine being seen would give me anxiety. being seen without my consent wld kill me inside. gotta keep the possibilities in mind when taking risks.

ooo chile I never even thought about someones phone being stolen or lost.
lord. that's definitely something to think about.

 

[NeighborhoodNomad]

I know but even the thought of a guy's phone being stolen n pics of mine being seen would give me anxiety. being seen without my consent wld kill me inside. gotta keep the possibilities in mind when taking risks.

Why focus on the "what ifs" tho? What if a stranger who's never seen you and who you will most likely never see sees your pics?

Fuck it.

 

[NeighborhoodNomad]

Not everyone is gonna be comfortable with the same things you are.

I thought you were a free spirit...

 

[Chi-Town B]

So Trini you got pics out there in the world

 

[AP4.0]

Well my thought has always been, I ain't trying to fuck this up and I know a good thing when it's in front of me

Ain't no need of messing it up to get internet daps

 

[Black Arachnia]

yeah.
But its also based on maturity, I know a lot of men that would never do something like that.

True, but I don't have time or desire to vet men like that. We all know plenty of men ain't shyt and are more than capable of exposing a woman and later blaming it all on her and that's why I have never and will never bless any man with nudes.