Sexting.

[AP2.5]

@AP21 at some point it's the women when it keeps happening to the same people

I mean, idk man. If you saying it's their fault because they're not properly vetting these dudes, I'm still kinda ehhh on that because some dudes will say and do anything to get a chick attention when if it means misleading who they truly are

I get it, some chicks are out there desperate when it comes to looking for love so I can understand why they are quicker to give up that kinda information but still man, the dudes are still on some fuck shit for exposing them imo

 

[Golden]

Send someone a nude and, unless you work in a sex positive field n have very progressive fam/friends, they have power over you. Be discerning, that's all.

Revenge porn is a sexual offense n deserving of legal consequences. I hope more states follow suit n make it criminal.

Still, protect yourselves.

 

[Whiskas]

It is so far from my style I can hardly comprehend the act. I mean I don't even have pictures that I cannot show my grandmother let alone sending nudes or sex tapes over the Internet.

However I don't judge others. If you enjoy it and understand the risks then by all means go for it. We all have to live our truths.


Eta:

In cases of unwanted exposures, it is very obvious to me the exposer is in the wrong. Blaming the exposee is victim blaming.

 

[Golden]

I don't have pictures that I cannot show my grandmother, let alone sending nudes or sex tapes over the Internet.

I don't judge others though. If you enjoy it then by all means go for it.

You're as pure as I imagine u girlie

 

[Reesey]

I don't have pictures that I cannot show my grandmother, let alone sending nudes or sex tapes over the Internet.

I don't judge others though. If you enjoy it then by all means go for it.

I'd show my grandma my pics too.

Spoiler: Hey Grandma Look!

 

[Chi-Town B]

I mean, idk man. If you saying it's their fault because they're not properly vetting these dudes, I'm still kinda ehhh on that because some dudes will say and do anything to get a chick attention when if it means misleading who they truly are

I get it, some chicks are out there desperate when it comes to looking for love so I can understand why they are quicker to give up that kinda information but still man, the dudes are still on some fuck shit for exposing them imo

What about that white chick, how many times its happened to her and she still willingly sends those photos out. Jazzybella is another one, she constantly sends pics out then all of a sudden she making threads about leaving the internet when the dudes pass the pics around.

I'm not saying the dudes are innocent but the women need to smarten up. They've been on the IC long enough to know better.

 

[Golden]

What about that white chick, how many times its happened to her and she still willingly sends those photos out. Jazzybella is another one, she constantly sends pics out then all of a sudden she making threads about leaving the internet when the dudes pass the pics around.

I'm not saying the dudes are innocent but the women need to smarten up. They've been on the IC long enough to know better.

Let's leave the IC n forums out of the convo for a sec. When nude passing happens in online communities, it can actually get back to the woman.

What are your thoughts on when guys receive a nude n show it on their phones to their niggas sitting next to them? Lower likelihood of her finding out n by extension knowing/doing better, but all the boys can see?

 

[Chi-Town B]

I feel that when a dude show off those type of pics that he's in the wrong no matter what, there's no excuse for that to happen.

 

[AP2.5]

What about that white chick, how many times its happened to her and she still willingly sends those photos out. Jazzybella is another one, she constantly sends pics out then all of a sudden she making threads about leaving the internet when the dudes pass the pics around.

I'm not saying the dudes are innocent but the women need to smarten up. They've been on the IC long enough to know better.

Iirc, the three times that I know of were all different

Sorry @BNE, but I gotta explain this as chi is in the dark about what happened but iirc, one time her Photobucket got hacked, another time, one of the dudes she was conversing with, his gf find out about it, and read/posted the messages and convos, and the third time was that she confided in a known hacker for some strange reason and for another strange reason, he posted what she sent him

So by my count, 2 of the 3 instances I named were not her fault imo.

I'm not gon speak on jazz because that's her situation but I will say that we both know the dude in question is/was definitely on the fuck shit and cares more about his internet reputation vs a girl's feelings. And dizz is a fuck nigga who blatantly lies and will do anything for a fucking plat thread, like that means anything irl.

Which brings up another question for another thread, if you know a chick whether irl or on the internet is involved with a dude with major red flags irl or on the internet, do you say something or do you just let it play out?

 

[Golden]

Which brings up another question for another thread, if you know a chick whether irl or on the internet is involved with a dude with major red flags irl or on the internet, do you say something or do you just let it play out?

That's worthy of its own thread imo. Great question.

IRL I'd feel bad about not saying something because I'd want to be informed if that was me. If I care about the involved, I would say something.

Online, that's a tricky one because you don't typically know what's going on behind the scenes. You don't know if they're even involved until it comes to light - which is usually when some messy shit happens. Only comes to your attention when it's too late.

Very different from real life where there's more transparency about the nature of people's involvement with each other (when within the same circle) but less transparency about the bad shit people do.

The convo gets distorted when you keep pulling from IC examples because it's a unique atmosphere. There's a huge gender disparity there and exposures happened there repeatedly. That isn't a reflection of how shit plays out outside of an IC/internet forum context.

When woman sending explicit shit to a guy she knows in person, in ordinary circumstances she has no way of knowing if he's violated that trust before. A guy could be sending every nude pic he gets to his bestfriends and his girl wouldn't know about it. Revenge aint even the usual motivation for sharing shit. Sometimes, niggas are just immature and tryna show their friends what they're getting. That's harder to quantify and the victim usually stays in the dark. In real life, the guys who pass shit around don't have it stamped on their foreheads. That is why you have to protect yourself.

 

[NeighborhoodNomad]

Sexting is fun with the right person whether you're in a relationship or not. ESPECIALLY when it's a random "good morning" titty pic or something. :) That's a great way to start the day.

The way I see it in 50 years most of the global population will have a nude out there floating around the internet. Fuck it. Maybe it'll help us be more comfortable with the human body.

I was thinking the other day what if aliens just stopped by and watched the way humans operate with our phones. Would they consider nudes and dick pics a form of a mating call?

 

[Race Jones]

or how about men that expose women are the problem

not the women that take and send nudes.

 

[NeighborhoodNomad]

And it is most definitely foul to share a pic that was sent to you privately unless permission was given to share that pic.

 

[Golden]

And it is most definitely foul to share a pic that was sent to you privately unless permission was given to share that pic.

Yup. Displaying someones naked body to people they didn't choose to show themselves to is not too different from pulling down their shirt/pants in a group setting. Only pictures are permanent.

 

[Race Jones]

I have no problem with sexting but tbh Ive never sent a full body nude in my life.

Some men Ive dated have seen my bare breast in photos but thats about it.

I dont mind taking full body nudes its just that they rarely come out sexy too me

I look and feel dumb when I take them so they never get sent lmaoooo

I need to learn how to take creative nudes. The leg propped up on the sink with the camera right up my pussy aint the wave.

 

[NeighborhoodNomad]

Yup. Displaying someones naked body to people they didn't choose to show themselves to is not too different from pulling down their shirt/pants in a group setting. Only pictures are permanent.

Sometimes men show our pride in different ways. We brag different.

I used to have a homie who would show me every nude his girl/fiance would send him because he was proud of that shit. Shit I was proud for him. I didn't mind at first but after a while I was like "aye bro, this is about to be your wife. I don't look at her the same now that I've seen everything she's working with." He was like "but you're like my brother". My response "I'm still a man..."

 

[Golden]

Sometimes men show our pride in different ways. We brag different.

I used to have a homie who would show me every nude his girl/fiance would send him because he was proud of that shit. Shit I was proud for him. I didn't mind at first but after a while I was like "aye bro, this is about to be your wife. I don't look at her the same now that I've seen everything she's working with." He was like "but you're like my brother". My response "I'm still a man..."

in what ways did your view of her change?

Edit: this is consistent with what I said about revenge not being the usual motivation.

Revenge aint even the usual motivation for sharing shit. Sometimes, niggas are just immature and tryna show their friends what they're getting. That's harder to quantify and the victim usually stays in the dark. In real life, the guys who pass shit around don't have it stamped on their foreheads. That is why you have to protect yourself.

 

[Chi-Town B]

This generation just a lil bit too trusting with who they send pics of their goods to. I hope my daughters never do this

 

[Race Jones]

Do you feel their should be a punishment for someone who exposes photos that were sent privately to another person?
Should a person just deal with being exposed ?

I think men that expose women are corny and wack as fuck.
ashy fuck niggas that need their ass beat
A woman felt comfortable enough to send you a picture and you are going to expose her?
yea that makes you a dusty piece of shit. I dont care about "why women keep sending nudes if they keep getting exposed"
fuck all that dumb shit.
A MAN SHOULD NEVER "EXPOSE" A WOMAN.
HE SHOULD NEVER POST HER NUDE PHOTOS ONLINE WITHOUT HER CONSENT.
THE END.

If someone sends you a picture in confidence,
do not post it without their consent.

I don't care what that woman may have done to you.
Don't post peoples nude photos online or anywhere else!!!!

AND FUCK THE MEN THAT EXPOSE WOMEN. BURN IN HELL!!

 

[Golden]

This generation just a lil bit too trusting with who they send pics of their goods to. I hope my daughters never do this

it wasn't commonplace for past generations to do it in the first place. unless u got a dark room, someones developing those film pics.