Nice Guys & Good Girls Finish Last
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Judge Dread
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In your world it may not be. But holding on to grudges is weight that only the grudge holder carries.
Judge Dread
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Why is there nothing nice about turning someone down?
My world is reality. A person doesn't have to forgive someone else to be forgiven.
Judge Dread
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You are thinking literally. I was speaking on a bigger level.
im doing to you what you do to everyone else
Judge Dread
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I am sure I have but there was no ill feeling in her turning me down or on my part for her turning me down. That particular situation just wasn't meant to be. If you get angry or mad when someone turns you down then you are showing a childish trait. You can be disappointed but even that shouldn't last long.
Whiskas
Curiouser & Curiouser
I think that theme is overplayed partly because everyone's definition of a nice guy is different and we jump into the conclusion the next person likes a bad guy when our definitions of "nice" don't match.
But I firmly believe most women want a what she considers a nice guy. A little imperfection may make a person more endearing, but I want no one fundamentally "bad".
But I firmly believe most women want a what she considers a nice guy. A little imperfection may make a person more endearing, but I want no one fundamentally "bad".
your statement in quotes gives the impression that the person she is making that statement to isnt feeling the guy based on a preconceived notion or a first impression she may have of the guy
the fact that her friend has to say "he's a really nice guy if you get to know him" is about as backhanded as a compliment as they come tho
you have your moments
Judge Dread
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I don't think anyone is born good or bad. Good people do bad things and bad people do good things. If I had no food and you had excess food and I asked politely and you told me no I might take your food. Both of us could be considered bad in that situation.
“How we live is so different from how we ought to live that he who studies what ought to be done rather than what is done will learn the way to his downfall rather than to his preservation.”
I prefer to view the world for what it is than how we feel it should be.
Judge Dread
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But both should be studied and you should run your house by the rules of how things should be and not how they are.
Golden
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I gotta say yes to the guy sniffing glue by the gas station or I lose my claim to niceness? damn
That's my point. You said "that's your world", I'm saying it's our world. Yes in a perfect world one should forgive to be forgiven, but in reality, that's not the case.
which is testament to my earlier statement that the whole shit is shallow, and relative....
this is right up there with making a list of a person who is your type and then being happy with someone completely different....
it's just a foolish sentiment that doesn't hold up when you really try to dig into it, as evident by this thread