OPINION Necessary Evils?

[🌊City]

So much headassery in this thread

Speaking of which, @Race Jones

Let the battle of wills begin.......

 

[Loquacious]

So everybody gotta be ugly because I’m in love.

 

[Loquacious]

My relationship is open because I think Ty Dolla Sign is fine and he thinks Beyoncé is sexy.

 

[🌊City]

Well if yu in a healthy relationship you shouldn’t need extra pussy either?

I mean if I’m with a man he sure in the hell isnt going to be pussy deprived...

Anything else?

Are you throwing all ya toys out tho?

What if one of you travel a lot?

What if he wears you out in the bedroom and has an appetite that’s larger than yours?

 

[Allergens]

Get it how u live

 

[Az]

Well you can’t really cheat with a toy so no I’m keeping em...

Nope I’m keeping up with my man no matter what.

Another question?

If he travel he better get his ass fed before he go because ain’t no feeding in unknown territory unless he fixing to loose sum...

 

[Az]

If you love ur woman and don’t want any other woman but her..why u find other women sexually attractive? U not suppose to want anyone but ur girl...u find her attractive cause at some level..ur open to sex with her

You a nice guy overall but damn I feel sad for your wife...

That’s all I got

 

[IP360]

Idk but when I do take that step with someone he gotta be for me and only me.
I don’t share.
I mean there’s to many choices out there to be sharing and I’ve settled in my past and won’t do it now.

Damn am I old fashion?
That shit just don’t sit right with me knowing my man doesn’t care if some other guy is deep in my guts with it...

Yikes

But what if he does cares. Again what if he no longer is interested in sex? No medical reasons or anything...he just lost interest and no longer is turned on by it. BUT he's ok wit you getting a side dude to satisfy that need. Doesn't that mean he care?

 

[🌊City]

Well you can’t really cheat with a toy so no I’m keeping em...

Nope I’m keeping up with my man no matter what.

Another question?

If he travel he better get his ass fed before he go because ain’t no feeding in unknown territory unless he fixing to loose sum...

So...penetration ain’t penetration?

What about the side chicks throws you off if not the act of penetrating her?

 

[Allergens]

You a nice guy overall but damn I feel sad for your wife...

That’s all I got

U shouldn’t,..

:haha3:She in a good spot

 

[SeaSnake]

If you love ur woman and don’t want any other woman but her..why u find other women sexually attractive? U not suppose to want anyone but ur girl...u find her attractive cause at some level..ur open to sex with her

Nah

 

[SeaSnake]

An open relationship would still have boundaries.

 

[Az]

So...penetration ain’t penetration?

What about the side chicks throws you off if not the act of penetrating her?

With a toy there is no emotion just satisfaction so no it’s not cheating.

If you with a side chick and not penetrating her then you looking like a fool saying she’s just a side of pussy knowing damn well there’s feelings there.

 

[Az]

But what if he does cares. Again what if he no longer is interested in sex? No medical reasons or anything...he just lost interest and no longer is turned on by it. BUT he's ok wit you getting a side dude to satisfy that need. Doesn't that mean he care?

Like idk what to even say to this like would you want to put yourself through that for the rest of your life?

Idk that I would. Damn

 

[🌊City]

With a toy there is no emotion just satisfaction so no it’s not cheating.

If you with a side chick and not penetrating her then you looking like a fool saying she’s just a side of pussy knowing damn well there’s feelings there.

So......you just know he gonna catch feelings?

Outside the feeling of momentary pleasure that is

 

[IP360]

"Noun. side chick (plural side chicks) (African American Vernacular, slang) A mistress; a woman one dates in addition to one's girlfriend or wife, usually (but not always) in secret."

That is the common understanding of the term.

It's different from seeing other parties while in an open relationship because that's just... exercising an open relationship. There are open relationships that are effectively monogamous because the couple isn't seeing or sleeping with other people at the time, even though they're down for it. Sleeping with someone else while in a relationship where it's allowed is just considered "poly", not having a side piece.

Side piece is damn near always used in reference to adultery.

"Common" doesn't equate to it being offically correct tho. Which is why I said "Popular opinion".

And that person is still a side...regardless if it's open relationship or not.

 

[IP360]

Like idk what to even say to this like would you want to put yourself through that for the rest of your life?

Idk that I would. Damn

But you're lookin at it as if that person has an issue with it. What if they didn't? What if that man is ok with his wife getting her needs met every so often?

He cares enough to know what his s/o wants, and willing to let her get it.

 

[Az]

So......you just know he gonna catch feelings?

Outside the feeling of momentary pleasure that is

It happens trust I know...

Not saying this is always the case but I’m sorry can’t nobody say they got they emotions in check.
One never knows what will come.

 

[Meeks]

Nah, side chicks and dudes aren't necessary. I'm not about to let no fool convince me otherwise neither.

 

[🌊City]

Damn that word evil