All a man gotta do is get him a woman that’s emotionally and mentally develop. All of this corny talk as nothing to do with anything beyond women’s affiliation to you. Because it is how people outside of your relationship view you status in your relationship.
They feel like if you are corny as they believe, women shouldn’t want you, and if they want you, they only want you for what you can provide them. And if they want you for more than what you can provide them, they use it as a metric to feel superior in the belief that they can take your girl from you.
No one in the community is calling Lil Nas X corny, they aren’t calling the gay Santana dude corny, they aren’t calling Ru Paul, Lil Richard, or any other known homosexual black men corny. They call them other stuff. Hell they aren’t calling Zaire Wade corny, they’re calling her daddy corny.
Corny for men in our community is another way of projecting a feeling of being superior to that man in the ability to get women, and for women it’s an excuse they use for the bad decisions they make in pursuing dysfunctional men.
I was at a DMV one day when I was 17 and I forgot to wear deodorant that day. I could smell me, I was straight onion. I was trying keep my arm pits tight. So I’m there wit my Aunt and she got two hood ass friends that’s there wit us too. One of the hood friends turns around to a white guy next to me and calls him Stank.
And it was probably more than likely me..lol, but she rips into dude. Dude was like a emotionally frail guy I guess cause his face got red, he didn’t respond and he cried silent tears. His girl was right there and comforted him. She wasn’t ashamed of him, she felt bad for him cause she loved him.
If being corny gets you a woman like that, I’ll be corny all day. Cause being a real nigga get you a chick that buss out your windows, flattens your tires, shows up at your source of income trying to make you lose it over something small, puts you on child support and doesn’t let you see your kid, fucks some guy cause he got more swag than you, lies cheats and steals, doesn’t support you emotionally…but she looks ice spice.
Thinking that’s a win is corny