Is this rape?

[Duwop]

Oh , there's their fault fam.

well you admitted you wish you could say things the way i worded them.....

so you realize that might be an area that you should prolly work on too

 

[AP3.0]

well you admitted you wish you could say things the way i worded them.....

so you realize that might be an area that you should prolly work on too

Du, you gon meet us for drinks?

 

[Goldie]

That's what you're here for b lol I'll continue to say shit like I say it.

 

[Duwop]

Du, you gon meet us for drinks?

why don't yall come to my job for drinks.....That way i can drink with yall and make money at the same time

 

[AP3.0]

why don't yall come to my job for drinks.....That way i can drink with yall and make money at the same time

its whatever, i just gotta spar with my lil brother before we get there

 

[Goldie]

lol I feel like Martin at marriage counseling

 

[Duwop]

its whatever, i just gotta spar with my lil brother before we get there

there's a dark parking lot where no one will bother yall right next to the bar, i'll put two pairs of boxing gloves in my trunk

 

[Golden]

Du, you gon meet us for drinks?

I been plannin on makin a pilgrimage 2 Du's bar for the longest, now u gon hijack the trip plan n not invite me?

well fuck u too AP

 

[AP3.0]

there's a dark parking lot where no one will bother yall right next to the bar, i'll put two pairs of boxing gloves in my trunk

 

[AP3.0]

I been plannin on makin a pilgrimage 2 Du's bar for the longest, now u gon hijack the trip plan n not invite me?

well fuck u too AP

you can come too...i aint think you was trying to catch a fade tho, but i'll bring an extra one

 

[Golden]

when are you coming back stateside?

you can come too...i aint think you was trying to catch a fade tho, but i'll bring an extra one

just b4 summer.

gowdie been drinkin protein shakes in prep to catch these fists

 

[Duwop]

I been plannin on makin a pilgrimage 2 Du's bar for the longest, now u gon hijack the trip plan n not invite me?

well fuck u too AP

i have a pair of pink gloves too, my wife wears them

 

[Loquacious]

Is a headache a real reason to not wanna have sex?

 

[Duwop]

Is a headache a real reason to not wanna have sex?

any reason you give is a real reason,

if you are an adult you can say whatever you want.

or just simply No

"No" is a full sentence. It doesn't always need an explanation attached to it

 

[Loquacious]

I'm not saying he has permission to rape you because your reason may not be valid. However, I've had headaches and even a migraine or two and was still down for sex. Sex can cure that headache. Trust me I know. I've cured quite a few.

So, "oh baby I got a headache, not tonight," is bullshit but he should still respect it and not force the shit.

 

[AP3.0]

Is a headache a real reason to not wanna have sex?

if the person has issues with migraines or allergeis , i would think that should be taken into account

 

[MissK]

Is a headache a real reason to not wanna have sex?

I can't and they wouldn't want me to unless they cool with me being sick all over them lol

 

[Loquacious]

if the person has issues with migraines or allergeis , i would think that should be taken into account

Take some medicine. I don't know tho, I'm different. I don't condone rape and if you say no, he shouldn't force you to do it. Some reasons women say no, are reasons I would never use. If I got a migraine, give me some meds and fuck me gently.

 

[Loquacious]

I can't and they wouldn't want me to unless they cool with me being sick all over them lol

Now if you're feeling nauseous and ready to just die, then yea. I understand. Some people do get sicker than others.

 

[AP3.0]

i dont want to leave it to chance that i assume no really means yes, and it puts me in a compromising situation under the guise of " well she is my wife, she cant deny me sex"

there are legitimate reasons why someone might just not be in the mood

again, this is a case by case situation, but if ya'll only sexing once a month/quarter, etc.. then yea, ya'll got way bigger issues than lack of intimacy