Is this rape?

[AP4.0]

I been plannin on makin a pilgrimage 2 Du's bar for the longest, now u gon hijack the trip plan n not invite me?

well fuck u too AP

you can come too...i aint think you was trying to catch a fade tho, but i'll bring an extra one

 

[Duwop]

I been plannin on makin a pilgrimage 2 Du's bar for the longest, now u gon hijack the trip plan n not invite me?

well fuck u too AP

i have a pair of pink gloves too, my wife wears them

 

[Loquacious]

Is a headache a real reason to not wanna have sex?

 

[Duwop]

Is a headache a real reason to not wanna have sex?

any reason you give is a real reason,

if you are an adult you can say whatever you want.

or just simply No

"No" is a full sentence. It doesn't always need an explanation attached to it

 

[Loquacious]

I'm not saying he has permission to rape you because your reason may not be valid. However, I've had headaches and even a migraine or two and was still down for sex. Sex can cure that headache. Trust me I know. I've cured quite a few.

So, "oh baby I got a headache, not tonight," is bullshit but he should still respect it and not force the shit.

 

[AP4.0]

Is a headache a real reason to not wanna have sex?

if the person has issues with migraines or allergeis , i would think that should be taken into account

 

[MissK]

Is a headache a real reason to not wanna have sex?

I can't and they wouldn't want me to unless they cool with me being sick all over them lol

 

[Loquacious]

if the person has issues with migraines or allergeis , i would think that should be taken into account

Take some medicine. I don't know tho, I'm different. I don't condone rape and if you say no, he shouldn't force you to do it. Some reasons women say no, are reasons I would never use. If I got a migraine, give me some meds and fuck me gently.

 

[Loquacious]

I can't and they wouldn't want me to unless they cool with me being sick all over them lol

Now if you're feeling nauseous and ready to just die, then yea. I understand. Some people do get sicker than others.

 

[AP4.0]

i dont want to leave it to chance that i assume no really means yes, and it puts me in a compromising situation under the guise of " well she is my wife, she cant deny me sex"

there are legitimate reasons why someone might just not be in the mood

again, this is a case by case situation, but if ya'll only sexing once a month/quarter, etc.. then yea, ya'll got way bigger issues than lack of intimacy

 

[Goldie]

:smh:

 

[Duwop]

my whole thing is you can deny sex as much as you want..

just be prepared to deal with whatever consequences those actions bring.....


if you know your man the type of nigga who like to play away games.....and he came to you first....
:shrug3:

i mean, most normal niggaz will cheat before they rape.....

 

[AP4.0]

here ya'll go with the black and white shit

ya'll went damn near a whole month without it but couldnt string together two consecutive months huh?

 

[Duwop]

still dont get it. y dont ppl just leave? sexual incompatibility is a perfectly good reason to leave.

that too..

 

[Duwop]

here ya'll go with the black and white shit

ya'll went damn near a whole month without it but couldnt string together two consecutive months huh?

da hell you talking about?

 

[AP4.0]

ya'll automatically jump to some of the craziest conclusions when it comes to topics like these

 

[Whiskas]

I see jail time in some of you's future.

:scust2:

 

[Loquacious]

I'm off the whole rape shit. It's foul and shouldn't happen. So I'm no longer speaking on this.


On another note, Like I told someone yesterday. If it comes to the point where you are making excuses as to why you don't wanna have sex with your partner or the answer is almost no every time. That relationship is dead.

You are supposed to want to fuck your man. Vice versa. Headaches and sicknesses happen. Yea they do. We are human. I'm not about to be fucking when I feel like my stomach is about to fall out of my mouth. How sick can a mf be though. I got a child and at the time I was with his dad it was extremely rare I told him no. Yes, I was tired as shit. I still did it. Hell, I even had sex with him when I wasn't attracted to him as much as I was before.

At my lowest point in my life, I had sex with my man. I didn't want to be touched at all but I still had a man to please and he would've done the same. Shut his needs out for what? I wouldn't expect someone with a low sex drive to understand that though.

 

[Black]

Staying on the original topic, yes. It's clearly rape.

 

[Ironman]

I'm off the whole rape shit. It's foul and shouldn't happen. So I'm no longer speaking on this.


On another note, Like I told someone yesterday. If it comes to the point where you are making excuses as to why you don't wanna have sex with your partner or the answer is almost no every time. That relationship is dead.

You are supposed to want to fuck your man. Vice versa. Headaches and sicknesses happen. Yea they do. We are human. I'm not about to be fucking when I feel like my stomach is about to fall out of my mouth. How sick can a mf be though. I got a child and at the time I was with his dad it was extremely rare I told him no. Yes, I was tired as shit. I still did it. Hell, I even had sex with him when I wasn't attracted to him as much as I was before.

At my lowest point in my life, I had sex with my man. I didn't want to be touched at all but I still had a man to please and he would've done the same. Shut his needs out for what? I wouldn't expect someone with a low sex drive to understand that though.

There's way too many topics going on in this thread which is the problem lol. What you're referring to is how I feel though so I agree. In regards to the picture posted THAT shit is jail time no if, ands, or buts about it.