Is The Step-Father Wrong in This? Let's Talk About It
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That would hurt more than anything
That's why I'd be like bet..... Here .. take the money, money ain't shit. That's all you wanted anyway. But I'm done. This it.
She'll get her wedding, with her father..... But I'm done. ✌?
Dwayne
Not Like Us
Lol at take the money.
You would her get the last con on you while you knowing.
couldn’t be me.
Well I don’t give off that type of energy for someone would think that would be cool without some real repercussions popping off
The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
I hear you. At that point, money don't even matter. If I said I was going to do it, I'd do it because I stick to my word. But if I had my way, they'd never hear from me again real talk. That's not being petty. The wife and daughter really revealed who they are and what they think of that man.
I'm not really sure what I'd do regarding the money. I see both sides. I think the people saying they wouldn't pay because "fuck them" are right. I think the people saying they would pay because they said they would are also right. At the end of the day, it just depends on your principles and how you stand on them.
I don't value money like that....
I'd rather throw it in their face really vulgarly and with total disgust than deny out of spite....
Dwayne
Not Like Us
Lololololol throw exactly what they using you for as some win.
You shouldn’t value money like that but def value your self respect.
The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
I don't see the difference. I mean not everyone can act like "money ain't an object," but if it's truly nothing special to you then you can honestly throw it in people's faces and it not mean anything to you. Think about it. If the wife and the daughter actually are relying on money from that guy, when he throws that last little bit at them and walks, it will mean something, especially for the wife. She's depending on that.
Dwayne
Not Like Us
Giving them what they want is never a good idea
The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
I understand what you're saying. I'm not saying that it's the best idea to give them what they want. But if you have your principles, and you're principles say that when you make a commitment, you follow through with it, I'm not going to say you're wrong for being a man of honor. At the end of the day, we should all be beholden to our own standards regardless of what other people do.
Dwayne
Not Like Us
Principles you have goes away in this situation
Fuck it y’all got. Let the users pull one more on you then.
I’ll never let a person knowingly use me. Once I find out I’ll dead that shit.
Elzo69Renaissance
These scars are the only real proof they could not
Yea I’d fuck that wedding all the way up lmao.......tell them I’d pay for it and wait til the last minute and not pay shit
I hate thieves and users
I hate thieves and users
The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
If your principles change based on the situation, you don't have principles. I have no problem with you saying you wouldn't pay shit. That's you. That's fine. However, if you can't understand why someone would want to fulfill their own principles regardless of what other people do, then most likely you don't live by principles.
Elzo69Renaissance
These scars are the only real proof they could not
His paying for the wedding as his fatherly duty
they made it clear he ain’t the father so that ends his fatherly responsibilities right then and there
Lol at principles
they made it clear he ain’t the father so that ends his fatherly responsibilities right then and there
Lol at principles
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
You have principles when people are not using you.
At least that's how I see it.
And giving them the money for this special when it's apparent they using him......dont matter how they got it....They still got it.
The mom bussed it open while sharing the coochie to make ends meet. What is throwing money mean to her?
They still cupid shuffling at the end of the day on your dime.
It's not that money has a value to me but it's obvious what it means to them.
They better take that shit to city hall and give me my car back.
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
Bruh.
They are using your principles against you.
They are banking on you still being an honorable dude.
That shit should be worse that not footing the bill.
RandomNegro
Active Member
This is why you don't bother with single mothers.
See, I'm not the kinda person that likes to let people play me outta position.
I'm not the kind of person who would ruin wedding because of feelings. Well I'd like to believe I'm not the kinda person who would ruin wedding because of feelings. And if I did I'd be disappointed in myself for losing my cool.
So I would insist the wedding go on as planned, and I'd respectfully excuse myself from everybody. I don't want no smoke, no problems, no discussions, no arguments.
If these people don't care about my feelings, I'm not going to give them any reason to address me any further.
Throwing a temper tantrum is something children do for attention.
You act out, you encouraging some kind of confrontation. And that would be the point I'd lose my shit. So to avoid all that. I'll pay for your wedding. Just leave me alone for life and pray for separation.
CeLLar-DooR
OG
This the worst part imo
I tell y'all all the time. My conflict not like y'alls.
Y'all fuss with people. I don't. And I ain't got time sitting in nobody's box off some petty shit.
The emotions involved it would be best for me to cash out. Don't bother me no more