Is he overreacting or she cheating?

[dodge]

Look at ya'll reliving your glory days

I agree that her actions were inappropriate since he let her know that he didn't like it the first time, but idk if it's worth going through a divorce.

So what would you do In a situation where a mans wife is purposely and NONCHALANTLY riding on bikes with strange men and disrespecting the man of the household?

What would cause a woman to hop on a motorcycle with a strange man in the first place? A MOTORCYCLE of all things. And a man the husband knows nothing about? “Enjoying the ride” isn’t a good enough excuse. Those men can easily violate her

Would you be comfortable with your husband driving around with random women you don’t know about just because he “enjoys it”?

You’re opening a dangerous door.

 

[Lord Nemesis]

She don’t respect her husband at all.

 

[dodge]

Although I still stand with my original verdict

I can see how someone would say “but there’s not enough information…what if….what if….what if” as a reasoning..

But based on what I’m reading….nah

 

[Dwayne]

Although I still stand with my original verdict

I can see how someone would say “but there’s not enough information…what if….what if….what if” as a reasoning..

But based on what I’m reading….nah

He said it’s a form of cheating to him so it’s cheating.

 

[dodge]

He said it’s a form of cheating to him so it’s cheating.

I agree that it is cheating…..but you also know people like to look for loopholes…

in conclusion I think she’s wrong and he has the right to leave the marriage

 

[mryounggun]

Unless you had sex with someone else, you didn’t cheat.

To ME, seems like a silly thing to file for divorce over. But that’s me.

 

[DOS_patos]

At black bike week my bike stayed with someone lady on that back...
..good times

Home wrecking ass nigga

 

[DOS_patos]

Me and this platonic friend that use to go clubbin had a falling out over some shit like that. We were coming out of the club ready to go home. The club was in Raleigh and we lived in Chapel Hill. That's a bout a half hour drive. She saw some biker dudes and started getting all excited. The interaction went something like:

Biker Boy: Hey come hop on. I'll take you for a lil 30 min ride.
Her: Oh yeah. I'm in. *looks at me* Wait for me.
Me: Hold on, you want to take your half drunk ass off with a complete stranger on a 30 min. ride? I don't think that's a good idea.
Biker Boy: Who is he? You gonna let him tell you that you can't ride?
Her: He's like my lil bro. He can't tell me anything. I'm going.
Me: Well, if you go, I hope that 30 min ride is back to Chapel Hill cause I'm going home.
Her: Whatever. Just wait here for me.

So of course I left and went home to crash. She called me the next day heated talking about I left her stranded and that a real friend wouldn't have done that. She didn't talk to me for like 6 months after that.

Nigga needed to be socked out for even trying to create tension.
Chick needs to be cut off for trying to play you….twice

 

[DOS_patos]

Look at ya'll reliving your glory days

I agree that her actions were inappropriate since he let her know that he didn't like it the first time, but idk if it's worth going through a divorce.

Excuse my language but if her titties are on a nigga back that ain’t her husband or relative or even close childhood friend ……she for the streets

 

[Dwayne]

Unless you had sex with someone else, you didn’t cheat.

To ME, seems like a silly thing to file for divorce over. But that’s me.

Sex ain’t the only way to cheat. Different folks have different rules when it comes cheating.

 

[Old Man Cain]

Unless you had sex with someone else, you didn’t cheat.

To ME, seems like a silly thing to file for divorce over. But that’s me.

So you don't think it's divorce material but how would you feel about your lady out right defying/disrespecting your wishes?

 

[Vagrant-718]

If hubby said it was inappropriate then that should’ve been it.
If the shoes was on the other foot and hubby had a random girl with her titty on his back, we all know wife would’ve had a fit

 

[mryounggun]

Sex ain’t the only way to cheat. Different folks have different rules when it comes cheating.

Naw I get that, B. But all I can do is tell you MY definition. That’s it.

 

[mryounggun]

So you don't think it's divorce material but how would you feel about your lady out right defying/disrespecting your wishes?

Not arguing that he should be upset, if he made it clear that he was uncomfortable with that type of shit. Clear cut case.

 

[B_A]

I mean, if they asks you not to cuz it makes them feel some sort of way, just kinda pretty disrespectful to go ahead and do it anyway

 

[IP360]

At black bike week my bike stayed with someone lady on that back...
..good times

My nigga...you bringing back soooo many memories. Lol!

Aye at black bikers...EVERYONE is single. Lol!

But back to the topic...I'd run they azzz off the fuccin road if i saw her. *Snoop's voice* Ole funky...dog-headed...bitch!

 

[Word....Life]

She either 1) got a whole slew of “bike niggaz” saved in her phone she be hittin’ up for “rides” or 2) she just be accepting rides from random “unsubs” (been binge watching Criminal Minds for tha past month lol) and she’s gonna inevitably get a ride from tha wrong “unsub” and get “unsubbed” to Bolivia…

Never are good results for their marriage…

 

[Tayboo]

Why do you feel constant disrespect from a spouse isn't worth going through a divorce?

What the wife doing is beyond inappropriate to me since it's something that she was told by her husband actually is a form of cheating to him.

So riding on the back of a bike twice is constant disrespect?? Did he actually explain to why he feels that's cheating so she has more of an understanding or he just told her and that's it?

a short separation and/or maybe some therapy should have tried instead of just going straight to divorce. IMO the situation is something that could have been worked through...

 

[Vagrant-718]

So riding on the back of a bike twice is constant disrespect?? Did he actually explain to why he feels that's cheating so she has more of an understanding or he just told her and that's it?

a short separation and/or maybe some therapy should have tried instead of just going straight to divorce. IMO the situation is something that could have been worked through...

It is disrespect cause he told her about it the first time and she went ahead and did it again. He was cool with it as long as it’s a friend or relative but in both cases was a stranger

 

[DOS_patos]

So riding on the back of a bike twice is constant disrespect?? Did he actually explain to why he feels that's cheating so she has more of an understanding or he just told her and that's it?

a short separation and/or maybe some therapy should have tried instead of just going straight to divorce. IMO the situation is something that could have been worked through...

He explained his position once.

this is not about dont but a new bag or dint be in that location.
this involves another man.
It’s multiple levels of disrespect.
if she didn’t bother to listen to her husband is one.
Breast on the back of another man is two
Her not even bothering to introduce dude to her husband is three
The clothes she has on in the presence of said dude is four.
She didn’t tell him she was in the presence or would be with another dude is five.