So niggas with 35+ bodies should expect not to be husbands at some point going forward or what?
That's on women. It's up to them to set their standards. If women decide they don't want to marry dudes that have been sticking their dicks in any and everything, then yeah, dudes should expect not to be husbands if they are running up the numbers.
There are segment of men who have that good old Madonna/whore complex. They say want a chaste woman, but scoff when that woman isn't giving it up after the third date. A whole lot of men aren't willing to wait no matter if they see that woman as wife material or not.
You're right.