Fellas, Just Ask the ladies...

[Old Man Cain]

Question........Ladies having large or even small breast ever made you self conscious? Have you ever not wore a particular item or bought a particular item because it would make your breast look too big or too small?



Let's talk about it

 

[MissK]

@Cain

Yes. I tend to wear tops that down play their size. I remember being somewhere in the summer, it was hot af and I had a tank top on which I normally don't wear due to the girls. Sure as shit some guy makes an obnoxious comment. I know they are on the bigger side, I don't need a guy to point that out.

I have also tested this little theory to weed out idiots on dates. I wore a dress that showed them off a bit more than usual and all the sudden it went from him looking for a relationship to more of a hey baby let's kick it.
I have also done the reverse and been very conservative-I didn't get a call back lol

I am amused at the different reactions...sometimes :)

 

[Duwop]

@Cain

Yes. I tend to wear tops that down play their size. I remember being somewhere in the summer, it was hot af and I had a tank top on which I normally don't wear due to the girls. Sure as shit some guy makes an obnoxious comment. I know they are on the bigger side, I don't need a guy to point that out.

I have also tested this little theory to weed out idiots on dates. I wore a dress that showed them off a bit more than usual and all the sudden it went from him looking for a relationship to more of a hey baby let's kick it.
I have also done the reverse and been very conservative-I didn't get a call back lol

I am amused at the different reactions...sometimes :)

yea cuz if you got some big'uns and we out on a first date and you covering them up, i'm like:tuh:

 

[Ironman]

@MissK :clawd:stop playing

 

[Old Man Cain]

@Cain

Yes. I tend to wear tops that down play their size. I remember being somewhere in the summer, it was hot af and I had a tank top on which I normally don't wear due to the girls. Sure as shit some guy makes an obnoxious comment. I know they are on the bigger side, I don't need a guy to point that out.

I have also tested this little theory to weed out idiots on dates. I wore a dress that showed them off a bit more than usual and all the sudden it went from him looking for a relationship to more of a hey baby let's kick it.
I have also done the reverse and been very conservative-I didn't get a call back lol

I am amused at the different reactions...sometimes :)

Normally I would say "proof of this" statement but I'm being serious in this thread.

For one my eldest niece is going thru a growth spurt and her momma is not liking it lol and the boys are on the prowl.


Secondly, I trying to be serious for today

 

[Reesey]

Question........Ladies having large or even small breast ever made you self conscious? Have you ever not wore a particular item or bought a particular item because it would make your breast look too big or too small?



Let's talk about it

Yes, I buy things to try and hide the girls as well.
I work in the Exec world full of white folk who may have only seen a juicy black woman in porno's.
I'm like a exotic martian in heels to these dudes smh.

I started wearing ONLY business suits and high neck dresses. lol that wasn't good enough.
My female SVP (who, mind you, wears low cut shirts, cleavage all over the place) decided to tell me that I was a distraction in the workplace and that she would like for me to try and dress a different way.

I said, with all due respect ma'am, but I wear business suits where you wear low cut blouses and mini skirts. We can go today and buy the exact same turtle neck ankle length dress and wear it the same day and you all will still find it revealing/a distraction.

she laughed it off and tried to hit me with the "Giiirrl, we can't help what we have amiright?"

 

[Ironman]

You want me to make a call @Reesey ? I'll have Black Widow set up a "business meeting " at her office

 

[Az]

Yes, I buy things to try and hide the girls as well.
I work in the Exec world full of white folk who may have only seen a juicy black woman in porno's.
I'm like a exotic martian in heels to these dudes smh.

I started wearing ONLY business suits and high neck dresses. lol that wasn't good enough.
My female SVP (who, mind you, wears low cut shirts, cleavage all over the place) decided to tell me that I was a distraction in the workplace and that she would like for me to try and dress a different way.

I said, with all due respect ma'am, but I wear business suits where you wear low cut blouses and mini skirts. We can go today and buy the exact same turtle neck ankle length dress and wear it the same day and you all will still find it revealing/a distraction.

she laughed it off and tried to hit me with the "Giiirrl, we can't help what we have amiright?"

@Her trying to join in on the to sexy train when yu called her out on her apparel...

 

[IP360]

HEY LADIIIIIEEESSS!!

Question...what was your worse hair spa...my bad...I meant hair SALON moment?

Lol.

 

[Loquacious]

HEY LADIIIIIEEESSS!!

Question...what was your worse hair spa...my bad...I meant hair SALON moment?

Lol.

You got a hair fetish?

 

[IP360]

You got a hair fetish?

Nope. Bored.

Figured if ya'll spend 9hrs at a salon, surely you got some stories.

 

[Golden]

HEY LADIIIIIEEESSS!!

Question...what was your worse hair spa...my bad...I meant hair SALON moment?

Lol.

They cut it without my permission cuz it would've taken them too long. Still mad, I cut my shits on the lunar calendar n I'd been growing it for years at that point. Straight disrespect.

 

[IP360]

They cut it without my permission cuz it would've taken them too long. Still mad, I cut my shits on the lunar calendar n I'd been growing it for years at that point. Straight disrespect.

Did you let them know? Or did they just assumed what you wanted? And do you still go to that salon?

 

[Golden]

Oooooh, got a better one. The fella workin there turned out to be sleeping with SEVERAL of the salon clients husbands. He bragged about it but wouldn't say which.

 

[IP360]

Oooooh, got a better one. The fella workin there turned out to be sleeping with SEVERAL of the salon clients husbands. He bragged about it but wouldn't say which.

That...that's just wrong on so many levels.

 

[Golden]

That...that's just wrong on so many levels.

Yeah. I was only 12. Used to go to the salon weekly or every other week so it was a tight knit crowd. He was always saying something about 'these women think they're so high and mighty, little do they know [;'.' word of his hoeing got around tho. when he lost weight on a reg diet plan, everyone jumped to the conclusion of AIDS.

 

[IP360]

Yeah. I was only 12. Used to go to the salon weekly or every other week so it was a tight knit crowd. He was always saying something about 'these women think they're so high and mighty, little do they know [;'.' word of his hoeing got around tho. when he lost weight on a reg diet plan, everyone jumped to the conclusion of AIDS.

So did any of his clients find out?

 

[Golden]

So did any of his clients find out?

One guy was suspected cause his wife left him over the DL shit. The rest? Unknown to this day. I'm guessing most never found out :(

 

[Loquacious]

When the lady cut all my hair off.

 

[Golden]

When the lady cut all my hair off.

Smh u too