Fellas, Just Ask the ladies...

@MissK :clawd:stop playing
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MissK said:
@Cain

Yes. I tend to wear tops that down play their size. I remember being somewhere in the summer, it was hot af and I had a tank top on which I normally don't wear due to the girls. Sure as shit some guy makes an obnoxious comment. I know they are on the bigger side, I don't need a guy to point that out.

I have also tested this little theory to weed out idiots on dates. I wore a dress that showed them off a bit more than usual and all the sudden it went from him looking for a relationship to more of a hey baby let's kick it.
I have also done the reverse and been very conservative-I didn't get a call back lol

I am amused at the different reactions...sometimes :)
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Normally I would say "proof of this" statement but I'm being serious in this thread.

For one my eldest niece is going thru a growth spurt and her momma is not liking it lol and the boys are on the prowl.


Secondly, I trying to be serious for today
 
Cain said:
Question........Ladies having large or even small breast ever made you self conscious? Have you ever not wore a particular item or bought a particular item because it would make your breast look too big or too small?



Let's talk about it
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Yes, I buy things to try and hide the girls as well.
I work in the Exec world full of white folk who may have only seen a juicy black woman in porno's.
I'm like a exotic martian in heels to these dudes smh.

I started wearing ONLY business suits and high neck dresses. lol that wasn't good enough.
My female SVP (who, mind you, wears low cut shirts, cleavage all over the place) decided to tell me that I was a distraction in the workplace and that she would like for me to try and dress a different way.

I said, with all due respect ma'am, but I wear business suits where you wear low cut blouses and mini skirts. We can go today and buy the exact same turtle neck ankle length dress and wear it the same day and you all will still find it revealing/a distraction.

she laughed it off and tried to hit me with the "Giiirrl, we can't help what we have amiright?"
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Reesey said:
Yes, I buy things to try and hide the girls as well.
I work in the Exec world full of white folk who may have only seen a juicy black woman in porno's.
I'm like a exotic martian in heels to these dudes smh.

I started wearing ONLY business suits and high neck dresses. lol that wasn't good enough.
My female SVP (who, mind you, wears low cut shirts, cleavage all over the place) decided to tell me that I was a distraction in the workplace and that she would like for me to try and dress a different way.

I said, with all due respect ma'am, but I wear business suits where you wear low cut blouses and mini skirts. We can go today and buy the exact same turtle neck ankle length dress and wear it the same day and you all will still find it revealing/a distraction.

she laughed it off and tried to hit me with the "Giiirrl, we can't help what we have amiright?"
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@Her trying to join in on the to sexy train when yu called her out on her apparel...
 
HEY LADIIIIIEEESSS!!

Question...what was your worse hair spa...my bad...I meant hair SALON moment?

Lol.
 
BNE said:
They cut it without my permission cuz it would've taken them too long. Still mad, I cut my shits on the lunar calendar n I'd been growing it for years at that point. Straight disrespect.
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Did you let them know? Or did they just assumed what you wanted? And do you still go to that salon?
 
BNE said:
Oooooh, got a better one. The fella workin there turned out to be sleeping with SEVERAL of the salon clients husbands. He bragged about it but wouldn't say which.
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:scust:

That...that's just wrong on so many levels.
 
BNE said:
Yeah. I was only 12. Used to go to the salon weekly or every other week so it was a tight knit crowd. He was always saying something about 'these women think they're so high and mighty, little do they know [;'.' word of his hoeing got around tho. when he lost weight on a reg diet plan, everyone jumped to the conclusion of AIDS.
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So did any of his clients find out?
 
Question.,............. Here's a question a pettiness and mean girl moves.
















Ladies do you keep or do you have a "friend" that you know is unattractive female friend around you on purpose?
 
BNE said:
Nope. Haven't heard a woman voice this reasoning for the friends they keep either.

What I have seen though, back in high school, was girls plotting to befriend women who are attractive so that they can benefit from male attention by association. Strange.
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Actually the latter of your comment was supposed to be in my question but I hit post reply too soon.
 
Cain said:
Question.,............. Here's a question a pettiness and mean girl moves.
















Ladies do you keep or do you have a "friend" that you know is unattractive female friend around you on purpose?
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I think all of my friends are attractive but like @BNE said there were girls who would befriend the attractive friend to reap the benefits. Which is hella crazy.
 
BNE said:
Exactly. Makes no sense to me because I've never heard a man say 'Meh she doesn't do much for me. Wait, she friends with Carla? Maybe I should call her...' unless they were just using them to get to the attractive friend. And who would want that?
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I'd be mad as hell if I was used to get to the attractive friend. I think women are sometimes legit friends with the "unattractive" friend but to us she is a cutie pie. In high school, I hung with a few girls and one girl was always called ugly by the boys we would talk too. I never thought she was ugly but to others she was the ugly friend. I had to curse many people out behind her.
 
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